7 Signs You're Ready to Get Married

If your wondering "how will I know" kind of like the song Whitney Houston sang, well let me break it down for you via some help from COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE. The article stared like this:  When Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds secretly tied the knot, everyone was pleasantly surprised. But still, Blake is only 25—the earliest age that experts say is good for making a marriage last. Age aside, research was conducted by experts for signs that let you know you're ready to get married. Be sure you check these off before you walk down the aisle.

1) You've Dated Around
This is in no way encouraging you to date alot of men till you settle for Mr. right. All that is being said is just in case you fall under this category you have an advantage.Having dated around under your belt does help you figure out what qualities are important to you and what makes a relationship work—so you truly appreciate your future hubs when you find him.

2) You Share Similar Goals
Settle down with a man you're more or less on the same page with: you both want to live in the city, you both want (or don't want) kids, etc.

3) You Don't Want to Change Him
Look, you don't have to adore everything about your guy.You can't change a man (but you can tweak him), and trying to will make you frustrated...not to mention bitchier.

4) Your Connection Is Tight Out of Bed, Too
When you first started seeing each other, staying between the sheets all weekend was pretty legit. But for your bond to be strong enough for the long haul, you need more than a physical connection—meaning you need to know that you can have just as much fun together with your clothes on as you do when they're off.

5) You're Not Living Out a Bridal Fantasy
Sure, it seems like every time you sign onto Facebook, another pal has posted pics of herself in a stunning white gown. But remember: Getting hitched isn't about the ceremony—it's about what happens after your big day. You'd better be thinking about your future life with him, not just your future bridal party photos (and how pretty they'll look in that fab silver frame).

6) You Both Try to Resolve Fights
Sweeping conflicts under the rug only sets you up for a bigger blow-outs down the road, because the issues will likely resurface if left unresolved. If you can't talk things out rationally, you're not ready.

7) Your Friends and Family Dig Him
Of course, it's your life, so you have the final say. Thing is, choosing a partner is a big deal, and your inner circle's input does mean something. It's fine if a few family members or friends aren't huge fans of you two as a couple; you can't please 'em all. But if everyone seems to think you're a poor match, ask them why. They might be onto something.

So what do you all think?...It's making alot of sense.