Friday 3 January 2014

GUYS HEADS UP: THINGS WOMEN CHECK OUT IN GUYS...FIRST!!

   
Happy New year, I'm so excited about this year, you know when you get this tingly feeling on your finger tips? I only expect good things this year. Contrary to popular opinion, guys aren't the only one's that scope people out so listen up fellas this is what we look out for in a guy on the real and ladies that might feel that I'm giving away sacred information? well I say cut 'em some slack girls, they have a right to know *winks*

While men ogle women and start forming their opinion, women too notice a few primal things in men as soon as they see them, and this first unspoken impression opens the door for future communication. Here are five tips to make that first impression count.

1. Physical appearance
Your physique or physical build is the primary feature that any woman notices within a few seconds of seeing you. This includes everything from height to weight, features, hair, eyes and more. So, guys spend some time at the gym to stay healthy inside out. And, don’t forget about personal grooming. Please keep your hands and nails clean.

2. Style sense
In next a few seconds, your fashion and style sense is on her scanning radar. The way you dress up speaks a lot about your personality. This doesn't mean that you have to look like a movie star all the time, but avoid making silly fashion mistakes like wearing sport shoes on formal pants. You may not know, but she will notice all these things and more.

3. Confidence
Women love bold, upfront and confident men who have opinion and views. During initial conversation, she tries to know how confident you are and how you approach things, positively or negatively. Accordingly, they get positive or negative vibes from you. Be positive and humble while talking to a woman and put forward your point too. However, don’t try to lead a conversation, have a conversation with her. Don’t try to act smart.

4. Communication
Women label you boring if you can’t keep up the conversation. So, leave those one-liners, hold her attention and make the session lively. The more you communicate, the more she will know about you. She might notice your communication skills, so be yourself and avoid arrogance.

5. Sense of humour
Women love guys who have a good sense of humour and who can make them laugh. They are quite popular with women and they feel comfortable and candid with such men. Start the first conversation on a light and funny note to churn out the positive results. Avoid dirty jokes during first conversation and earn bonus points with healthy humour.

Believe it or not that pretty much it, the saying women are from mars doesn't come to play with these easy to apply tips do they? Now for you that don't know the drill, drop a line on the comment bar if you've got something to say plus catch me on twitter if you want to make a special blog request :) 

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

The hints are quite reliable.

Anonymous said...

Good sect of hints