The age old question stems up again, should a person play hard to get or not? I must say the argument about it is endless. I can't even answer the question any better than I know when this argument started, but what I did do for the benefit of both warring sides is draw up a list of the pro's and cons of this timeless mating/courting skill. Here they are:
Examples of the Advantages of Playing Hard to Get:
- It makes you seem mysterious.
- It keeps the boy/girl on their toes.
- It doesn't make you seem too clingy.
- If this ends up in a relationship, you two won't be obsessed with each other
Examples of the Disadvantages of Playing Hard to Get:
- It could make you seem uninterested.
- It could make you come off as rude or mean.
- The other person could get the wrong message from you.
- Mixed signals are very likely to happen.
So you weight it and make your decision, but my personal opinion is for a tradition such as this, which is as old as time, will be pretty darn hard to stop. *kisses*
3 comments:
Depends on your looks. If you are drop dead,you can afford to play it more than others. If you are not, you can't afford to get too into it.
I would say it depends on value really. There is nothing worse than chasing a woman, pretty or not and realizing the juice isn't worth the squeeze.
Lol @ Rotimi,so how will you find out if the "juice" is worth the squeeze? c'mon we both know men love the chase.
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