REASONS WHY WOMEN CHEAT

   

                                      

We all know it has become some kind of norm for men, mostly married to keep mistresses, and how probably every woman on this earth can share an account of her man or her friends man that cheated! It had been quite unusual for a woman to cheat,never been heard of at some point even,but now in this age and times i think the statistics is drawing level on the percentage of female and male cheats. As a woman this alarming statistics caused me to go out and really research and ask women why they cheat. I got very interesting replies but before i share this,here's a curiously real article i'd like to share with you:

The difference in men and women cheating is that men often cheat for physical reason while women often have emotional reasons for cheating on their partners. The reasons why women cheat include loneliness, revenge, boredom and self-esteem. These factors may be inexcusable but they do exist in the minds of a cheating women. In Nigeria of today, more and more women are becoming guilty of cheating on their partners and it is often emotional reasons rather than lust that drive them of these affairs.

Loneliness is one of the primary reasons that women seek out affairs and cheat on their partners.
Although it sound contradictory that they should feel lonely because the women are currently in relationship, it is often a relationship that is not emotionally fulfilling. Women involved in these unsatisfactory relationship may feel as lonely if not more so than women who are not in a relationship. If a woman is not receiving the attention she feels she deserves in a relationship, she may be tempted to seek that attention else where and become involved in an affair. A partner who becomes overly involved with his work or a hobby may not make time to spend with his partner and this often results in the women feeling as if they are all alone.

One of the most prevalent reasons why women cheat is that they feel as though their current partner is not lavishing much attention on them and they feel lonely even in this presence. This feeling of loneliness can drive a women to cheat on her husband.  Revenge has also become an increasing factor in why women cheat. The modern woman is no longer willing to sit back and accept the fact that their partner may cheat on them. The theory of ''An eye for an eye'' has unfortunately trickled down into the real of romantic relationships and many women see a cheating partner justification to have an affair of their own. They believe that they are justified in having an affair if they catch their partner cheating on them.

Boredom may also cause women to cheat. Their current relationship, may have fallen into a rut and lost the excitement that it possessed in the early stages of its existence. They may feel that their relationship has become dull and predictable and rather than trying to bring excitement into their current relationship they may pursue affairs in the hopes of achieving the excitement thy felt when they first become involved with their partner.

While an affair may bring about a temporary solution of making the women feel excited about love again, it may ultimately destroy both their current relationship as well as their cheating relationship. An affair is exciting not only because it involves sneaking around and ultimately getting away with doing something wrong. To many women this is very exciting and they are willing to risk losing their relationship over their affair. Many women cheat because they are bored with their current relationship and they seek to bring excitement back into their life through engaging in an affair.

...hmm interesting stuff aye? WATCH OUT FOR PART TWO lol.