5 SIMPLE BUT EFFECTIVE WAYS TO SAY "SORRY"...

You know that feeling...you're hurt, your partner hurts too, there's tension; so strong, you could almost slice it with a knife.You just want to make all that tension go away and make everything perfect again or you may not even understand why your partner is angry, yet you can see the visible anger on his on her face and countenance.

Whatever the situation is, be sure to be sincere.It could be really difficult to say those words, 'I'm sorry' and sometimes, even when you say them, they just sound lame and insincere.

These are 5 very simple but very effective ways of taking that step and dissolving the tension


1. Make Your Apology Bigger than the Crime. Don’t attempt to diminish your mistake by offering a lame apology or excuse. You’ll only make matters worse. Instead of Saying “It’s not a big deal,” “I didn’t mean it,” or “You’re overreacting” … Try: “I made a big mistake,” “I never should have done that,” or “I should have known better.”

2. Admit Your Real Wrong. The superficial part of a mistake (missing dinner, a careless comment) is often a symptom of a larger offense. A good apology reveals that underlying issue by using the word “because.” Instead of: “I’m sorry I forgot about our dinner plans” … Try: “I’m sorry I forgot our plans because it was disrespectful of me to cancel at the last minute.”


3. Never Say “But”. This one word can sabotage your apology. It’s a disguised effort to deflect blame (“I’m sorry about forgetting dinner, but you should have reminded me”). O_O Never do this. It drives me nuts. I am sure other people think so as well.

4. Use Your Words, Not Your Wallet. Nothing can replace an honest, heartfelt apology. Giving your partner flowers or another gift in lieu of an apology can come off as a bribe. The gift says you’re sorry but doesn’t show that you understand what you did wrong. If you want to give a gift, do it later — it’ll be much more appreciated when it’s given without strings attached.

5 Make your expressions match your words: With all said and done I think by far this is the most important tip of them all. When your apologizing you need to look like you are actually sorry or else everything your doing will be blown up in the air,avoid being smug or proud because you know your getting the sympathy you want from your partner. If your going to act out an apology, you better look the part *wink*

Do you think these tips will actually work?...HOLLER

HOW TO BAG YOURSELF A MAN-FROM A MAN'S POINT OF VIEW.

The happily married popular TV and radio personality has tips for all single women...on how you can get a man...:-) See it below and tell us if you agree...

10. Don't pressure him to marry u with questions like "Where's this leading?" Instead leave him if he's taking too long.#IksTipsToGettingAMan

9. No matter what, never be rude or abusive to him in front of his friends. (Not even in jest) #IksTipsToGettingAMan

8. Have standards. Or you'll find yourself in and out relationships too often and that'll earn you a bad name. #IksTipsToGettingAMan

7. Learn to cook. Most guys like a girl that CAN cook. Yeah not all guys but MOST. So do yourself a favour and learn #IksTipsToGettingAMan

6. Don't give it ALL up. Leave some for marriage. Perfect the art of giving previews. Nobody pays for free stuff. #IksTipsToGettingAMan

5. Make an effort. Try to look nice. Work out. Guys like babes. Get that Don King hair done, stop forming"Oh Naturale" #IksTipsToGettingAMan

4.Drop guys that take all ur time without really chasing u. They block other guys. No IWC= Intimacy Without Commitment#IksTipsToGettingAMan

3. Be careful not to be TOO INDEPENDENT. Learn to gain from your man's presence in your life. Guys need to be needed. #IksTipsToGettingAMan

2.Make friends with married women. They know what guys want more than your single friends (that's why they're married) #IksTipsToGettingAMan

1. Learn to do solo trips. It's just easier for most guys to step to a girl on her own, than one in a pack of girls #IksTipsToGettingAMan










I especially like tip number six,believe it or not i re tweeted it when i saw it. By the way these tips were given out freely on twitter, your thoughts?

WOULD YOU DATE A GUY THAT EARNS LESS THAN YOU DO?

TLC's Chilli was a guest on a TV show recently and they asked her if she could ever date a man who earns less than her. Her response below...

“I’m very picky, I guess you want to call it that. Here’s my issue with ‘dating down’ – it sounds bad, it makes us seem shallow - the problem with dating down I think that for a female, no matter how much money you make or not, every woman wants to feel like a princess, you know. I don’t look for a guy to pay my bills, I can pay my own bills. I can do a lot of things for myself. Thank God I’ve been blessed. But I would love to go on a date with a guy and he pays for it or we go on a trip together and - if I have to pay half then I need to go on that trip with my girlfriend, not a dude. I’m just saying."

This is a delicate topic for me because whether you like it or not it's a big deal and I personally would have to agree with chilli to some point. I would pay half of my bill if need be but if it becomes a regular thing I might have problems...now I'm just saying. Seriously though what do you think of her response?

FASHION FACE OFF: WHO ROCKED IT BETTER!

Two fashion diva's Kim Kardashian and Jada Pinkett-smith go head to head on this one. Who do you think wore it better? Personally my vote goes to Kim K,for one thing the dress looks too big for Mrs. Smith *shrugs* my opinion anyway. Drop a line with your thoughts here.

10 DATING RULES MEN WISH YOU WOULD BREAK

1) Dating Rule to Break: Never Being the First to Initiate Contact :While drunk texting and spamming are anything but sexy, most men appreciate a random text now and then. In fact, when done right, it can make them more interested in you, Always waiting for the guy to initiate contact is annoying to most men.

2) Dating Rule to Break: Waiting to Have Sex Until the Third Date:When it comes to sex on the first date, some guys say to hold back, but many guys believe it should be decided on a case-by-case basis.

3) Dating Rule to Break: Not Accepting a Last-Minute Offer: Back in the day, “the rules” warned that accepting a late invitation was a sign of desperation. Not true, they wish women understood that asking for a date a day or even a few hours before is not [usually] about being disrespectful, but more about having a last-minute idea to spend time with someone you like.


4) Dating Rule to Break: Expecting a Guy to Pay: While most men are happy to pay on the first date, many are wary of dating a woman who never pulls out her purse. Men think always expecting the guy to pay is rude, If he buys dinner, offer to get drinks or ask him out to the movies and treat him. It will show him that you’re not looking for him to finance your good time—something a lot of guys worry about.


5) Dating Rule to Break: Leaving Your Relationship Up to the Universe: Checking out your daily horoscope can be a fun way to break up the day, but using it as a dating tool can seriously limit your options. So just in case your daily horoscope doesn't agree with your significant others sign bringing it up would cause more than just a little trouble.


6) Dating Rule to Break: Thinking the More Time You Spend Together the Closer You Are: It’s natural to want to spend time with someone you like, but pushing the fast-forward button on a new relationship can send great guys running in the opposite direction.

7) Dating Rule to Break: Expecting Dates to Be Elaborate: Guys won't break their banks or eat/take you out and spend on you above their pay grade. So it will make sense if there isn't pressure to impress when taking a lady out on a date

8) Dating Rule to Break: Dating Only Your Type: A lot of women tend to have height, eye and hair requirements, which keeps them out of relationships with great guys. It’s fine to have a ‘type,’ but I think women should be more open.

9) Dating Rule to Break: Assuming You’re Monogamous: If we’ve been on only five or so dates, we’re dating, and unless a guy makes it clear that you’re exclusive, you should assume that he’s dating other people and you should too.

10) Dating Rule to Break: Running Everything By Your Girlfriends: A lot of women think they need to share every last detail with their friends as a way to gauge the guy and where the relationship is going, but this often leads to miscommunication....culled from glamour.com

Remember girls these are relationship rules they wish we could break not necessarily that you have to conform. Remember there is no particular blueprint to a working relationship,make your relationship work for you.

BEHOLD A 10.000 POUNDS VIBRATOR

I came across this vibrator and I was like whoa when I also found out how much it costs!! 10,000 pounds!! I mean really what could a vibrator that cost that much do for pete's sake! well this is some of it's features:It's a  24 karat gold, £10,000 Lelo Inez vibrator.(it's name) plus it gives two hours of charge for four, straight, unadulterated hours of bliss. Hell, we're talking not one, not two, but five stimulation modes, starting at 'soft flutter' and vrooming all the way through to 'intense pulsation'.

My opinion THAT 'S SICK, lol but this is just an eyeopener that people will go to any lengths for self satisfaction...it's kind of sad but believe me I didn't make this up. Thoughts anyone?

DAVID VILLA IS A SEXPERT!

The Barcelona striker making bold statement with his clothes there. So for you people that really need that sex advice? contact the brother above,you'll be a satisfied customer i promise *wink*

Meanwhile in a related story, fottie stars are seriously out there to make a fashion statement. Take controversial Manchester city striker Mario Barlotelli  for example,liked his mo hawk so much he had it included in his hoodie. Don't know about you but this picture illicit the words W.T.F!!