Thursday, 30 July 2020

Long time no see!!

This post is basically to do a shout out to my teaming 5 followers...lol I've been gone for too long and this post is basically to share with you how I've grown over the years. I want to encourage you, yeah you girl, that it's okay to wanna be an independent lady and then also okay to want to be taken care of. I personally hate tags , I want to be the one to tell you how I am, who I am and also be the one to explain my actions and not be tagged as something or the other because everyone has to belong to or identify with some group or the other. 

It took me years to come to this resolution, I had for years felt that I was a career driven, independent woman and was "working" to live up to that identity. The work was hard and I envied other girls that didn't have to put in this kind of work but still achieved so much more than I did, how the hell were they doing that?! My perspective had to change and I had to work again to disabuse my mind and change my out look on life.

Basically,I'm a work in progress and I want everyone to know that it's okay not to have it all figured out, they say the only constant in life is change. So if a condition that you created or stumbled into doesn't suit you anymore...CHANGE IT. It's okay to change, adjust and then readjust what isn't okay is for you to continue to "manage" circumstances and situations when you have the power to flip the script, literally. It is not okay to go around with a defeatists mentality , being too lazy to make the effort. It's your life...take charge, you and no one else should be more invested in your success. To end this rather short and spur of the moment post, in the words of the late baby girl Aaliyah " if at first you don't succeed, pick your self up and try again" 
Here's to never saying "Never"!! If you read this, don't be shy to post a comment and let me know how you are..

Monday, 22 May 2017

IT AINT ALL ABOUT THE THONG, THONG ,THONG!





Holler my loyal 5 followers lol, it's been ages -I know-I really can't give an excuse for why I've been away for a long while but I will try to be as constant as I can. So first off a big Hurrah for the first post in like tow or three years!. 
Something to note this blog is originally suppose to be an etiquette blog and has been taking an uncomfortably sexual tone which i'm going to turn around from today.So enjoy this article and learn!!

Every woman should have several pairs of panties for different occasions, just like clothes! There are so many underwear choices for women these days that it is easy to get confused about what you should wear and when, though. Thankfully, there are some tried and true underwear selecting tips that will help any woman make the right choice. It just all depends on your body type, modesty level and how the underwear will work with what you are wearing. 


Step 1 
Steer clear of see-through mishaps. If you are wearing sheer clothing, it is best to go with a pair of panties that is in a skin tone color. Lighter women will want to choose a buff or nude color, while darker women may need a tan or brown undergarment. 

Step 2 
Make sure that your underwear isn't visible in your outfit. Avoid the peek-a-boo look by choosing a low cut briefs to wear with low ride jeans. 

Step 3 
Choose the perfect fit. If the underwear rides up, curls up around the waist or pinches, then you will need to choose a larger size. If the underwear sags around the crotch or falls down, you will need to go down in size. 

Step 4 
Complement your assets. Women who love their booty should choose a fanny flaunting thong or comfy, yet sexy, boy shorts. Show off a toned belly with bikini briefs. 


                                             





Step 5 
Hide your flaws. If you need to suck it in or banish a roll, select a control top or slimming pair of panties. These are usually high-waisted panties that push excess fat back so that the stomach looks flatter. These can usually be purchased in most department stores. 

Step 6 
Add assets. There are now panties that can give you a little extra junk-in-the-trunk without surgery. These panties have padding or silicone in the butt area to give you a little more curve.  

Step 7 
Lift and separate. There are also "body shaping" panties that are specifically designed to lift the butt and to help users avoid "monobutt." These panties are often made from stretchy, form fitting material. The cheek area is often cut out to create the boost and separation. These panties can be purchased from specialty undergarment shops.

Monday, 20 October 2014

THE SOLUTION TO LOVE?: IT'S ALL IN THE CALCULATIONS

    
I don't know if this will make sense saying happy new month when it's the 20th day in the said new month lol, but it has been way too long since I put up a fresh post so for all the national holidays I've missed I sincerely wish you well. 
I also feel the need to have to explain for my many months of complete radio silence; I moved to a different city, got a new job and just generally re-adjusting to life in a new state and city you know blah blah blah. It's been a pretty rough couple of months but I figured something big had to come up to make me come back to blogging and viola!! something big did come up. I'm itching to share this with you so read,enjoy and most importantly comment.

Is there a formula for lasting love?

The formula for the perfect first date, well that's easy; Candlelit dinner + kissing = a call back.
The perfect relationship? Timing + communication x mutual attraction – emotional baggage = intimacy.
Penis + pulse = One night stand. Relationships seem simple when you put them like that.
And yet we've all had those romances where the sums seem to add up, where the right boxes were ticked and the scores were even... but somehow it doesn't add up to love.

Love is frustrating, elusive, intangible. It starts in that sweet spot between intimacy and excitement which is impossible to manufacture and tiring to maintain. Can the algorithms of online dating sites or indeed the long odds of stumbling upon your perfect partner down the local pub ever predict where, when or for how long cupid will strike?

Whilst science has not yet manufactured the perfect partner, mathematicians are claiming to have found the formula that predicts how long love will last. Research commissioned by MSN has revealed a new love equation that determines the key ingredients to a successful, long-lasting relationship – with factors such as a good sense of humour ranking in importance alongside a person's number of previous sexual partners.

According to the 2,000 males and females surveyed, 25 per cent of both men and women believe their partner should have had four sexual partners before them (with one in five men clinging to the traditional belief that they should be their ideal woman’s “first”).

The survey also found that men prioritize looks over intelligence and are twice as likely as women to believe that good sex is important for a happy, enduring relationship.

The biggest surprise for me was that the number one trait we're all apparently after is wit. So there you go, it's not sex-appeal but sparkling banter that'll make you a hit with the opposite sex.

It is claimed that the resulting formula (L = 8 + .5Y - .2P + .9Hm + .3Mf + J - .3G - .5(Sm - Sf)2 + I + 1.5C - see key below) can determine how long a potential or current relationship can be expected to last.

Does it really work? I decided to test the hypothesis through extremely scientific means (in other words, by broadcasting to the world, via Twitter, that I am single and ready to mingle in a mathematically-approved fashion). I applied the formula to various unsuspecting male friends and volunteers over the course of an afternoon, and eventually found a man with whom love would apparently last 12.9 years.

Only trouble is... I don't fancy him. And despite the 12.9 happy years I could offer him, he doesn't particularly fancy giving it a go either. That's science for you. Back to the drawing board.

The formula explained:

L = 8 + .5Y - .2P + .9Hm + .3Mf + J - .3G - .5(Sm - Sf)2 + I + 1.5C

L: The predicted length in years of the relationship

Y: The number of years the two people knew each other before the relationship became serious

P: The number of previous partners of both people added together

Hm: The importance the male partner attaches to honesty in the relationship

Mf : The importance the female attaches to money in the relationship

J: The importance both attach to humor (added together)

G: The importance both attach to good looks (added together)

Sm and Sf = The importance male and female attach to sex

I = The importance attached to having good in-laws (added together)

C= The importance attached to children in the relationship (added together)

Note: All 'importance' measures can be scaled from 1 to 5 where 1 is not important at all and 5 is very important.

Research findings for same sex couples differed slightly from heterosexual couples and so the formula changes slightly in light of this to L = 8 + .5Y - .2P + 2J - .3G - .5(S1 - S2)2 - I + 1.5C (where S1 and S2 are the two partner’s ratings for the importance of sex).

Culled from businessinsider.com

With all said and done is this a formula worth trying? Let me know your thoughts on the comments bar.





Thursday, 30 January 2014

GIRLS LIKE BIG CARS!!

   
This is a new survey that I discovered, It doesn't apply to me but I figure maybe it might be applicable for some others. Here's how it goes:

If you find yourself without a date this Valentine’s Day, maybe it’s not you. Maybe it’s your car. According to a new survey by Insure.com, women say that attractive men tend to drive black Ford pickup trucks. Men report that attractive women drive red BMW sports cars. The survey of 2,000 men and women asked what type, brand and colour of vehicle are driven by the most fetching members of the opposite sex. Women ranked these styles as cars that attractive men drive: 

• Pickup trucks: 32% 
• Sports cars: 27% 
• SUVs: 16% 
• Sedans: 11% 
• Hybrid or electric: 9% 
• UPS truck: 4% 
• Minivans: 2% 
• Mail truck: 1% the top brands of car for attractive men, as ranked by women, were Ford (16%), 

Chevrolet (13%) and Porsche (11%).  
Women overwhelmingly point to black (53%) as the colour of cars driven by good-looking men, followed by silver (16%) and red (13%). Here’s how men ranked car types for attractive women:

• Sports cars: 39% 
• Sedans: 22% 
• SUVs: 20% 
• Pickup trucks: 10% 
• Hybrid or electric vehicle: 6% 
• Minivans: 4%
Men envision desirable gals in BMWs (16%), Mercedes-Benzes (14%) and Porsches (10%). The top car colours for attractive women were red (40%), black (23%) and silver (14%).

It is believed that “if the car is well kept, there's a better chance the owner takes good care of him or herself." These observations are supported by survey results. When asked what’s most important about a car belonging to the opposite sex, people say: 
1.That it is clean. (Women: 45%. Men: 43%.) 
2.That it is reliable. (Women: 37%. Men: 29%.) Less important are: 
3.That it is interesting. (Women: 7%. Men: 12%.) 
4.That it is new or new-ish. (Women: 6%. Men: 9%.) 
5.That it is expensive. (Women: 4%. Men: 6%.)
The fact of the matter remains: Your persona is intrinsically linked in some way to the vehicle you drive. You may be able to leverage that to boost your odds of a date to the movies this Saturday night. 

Well what do you think? do you agree? holler at me via twitter @keeksokafor or drop a line below.

Tuesday, 21 January 2014

THE SIGNS: SHE WANTS YOU TO MAKE A MOVE!

   

Okay I Understand it's 2014 and we women have to take the bull by the horn, I'm not arguing with that notion I'm just providing other ways we women can tell you we're interested without coming out rightly and blurting it out. For the women that still want to remain coy and demeanour-kinda like me-here are the "things" we do.  Plus after I have shared all this fellas use your initiative will ya?! Enough said...

9) The Head Rest

The casual head rest is a major sign we want to get closer to you. We are literally inviting you into our personal space by invading yours. We're not just brushing something off your jumper -- we are placing our face near your face. In terms of all (non-sexual) body parts in close proximity, the face is one of the most intimate -- you wouldn't want your face close to someone you didn't find attractive.

8) The Eyelash Bat

If you're noticing us holding your gaze for longer than normal -- and then looking down to the floor shyly -- know you've captured our interest. In a completely platonic encounter, maintaining eye contact shouldn't prove a challenge because we're not threatened or embarrassed or self-conscious (unless we're incredibly embarrassed or self-conscious normally). But if we can't maintain eye contact and seem nervous, it's probably because we're really into you. Which makes us nervous.

7) The Thigh-On-Hand

The more intimate we feel towards you or think about you, the more likely we are to find reasons to touch you... pretty much everywhere we can. Obviously the easiest spot to touch -- and most innocent -- is near your penis. Just kidding! It'd be your shoulder or your upper arm. So if we're putting a hand on your thigh (or anywhere near your junk), chances are it is very intentional and we are definitely thinking about touching very close by. Now would certainly be the time to make a follow-up move.

6) The Getting Comfy

Any time we willingly cozy up next to you or find a reason to minimise the personal space between the two of us it means we want to feel your body next to ours. Ask yourself: Would you do that with a woman you weren't thinking about naked? No woman wants to feel a man's body next to theirs if they're not interested in a little make out.

5) The Boob Graze

Read with caution: Not all women use their boobs as a flirting tool -- some of us have just been overly blessed by nature, or maybe we couldn't be bothered to find our "good" bra that day so they're a bit less strapped down than normal. End of story. But for some other women using your boobs is a sign she wants you to make a move.

4) The Hand Brush

This is a move that's not too invasive and one that's easily ignored if not noticed -- which is what makes it such a great move. If a woman brushes her hand against yours once, it could be an awkward mistake. Twice? No chance. If it is a mistake, chances are we will laugh awkwardly and actually bring up in conversation the awkwardness that just happened. But. If we meant to do it, we won't say anything until we get up the courage to try it again. So if her hand brushes against yours (twice), grab her hand. That's what she wants.

3) The Tickle Trick

Tickling involves some heavy contact. You're not doing it right if you're not on the ground, on top of the person you're tickling as they're writhing around in a fit below you. Given this, it's not exactly for two people who don't want a lot of physical contact (or the occasional boob graze amidst all the action)

2) The Yawn-And-Lean

If you're moving towards the end of an evening and a woman is tired, she will yawn and say she's tired and wants to go home. If a woman is tired and wants you to come with her home, she will give you some major signals. One such signal? If you're sitting near one another, and she yawns and leans her head or reaches out and rests her hand on your shoulder or chest before she says she wants to go home, she is definitely telling you she doesn't want to go home alone. Think about it: She's practically physically pulling you into her bed.

1) The Lean-And-Touch

Similar to the 'yawn-and-lean', this is probably one of the most-used major signals meaning we're into you and want you to make a move. It's innocent enough to be taken as innocent flirting (in case you don't feel the same way back) and strong enough to be noticed.

That's it basically all you guys have to do is notice these tell tale signs of opening, and jump through that crack without looking back lol. Thank me later...heck thank me now! first hit the follow button on twitter; my handle @keeksokafor or drop a comment below :)

Monday, 20 January 2014

RIDICULOUS SEXUAL MYTHS BROKEN


Here are a couple of sex  myths that I just had to trash out. So people better recognise! Everything and everything is all in your head. Especially number 2! I've had series of arguments with guys and I still stick to my belief it's all in your head, you need to break out of those old notions and stick to the facts.
1. Myth: Men have more sexual urges than women
Fact: The media and society may have portrayed it that way, but let us make it clear that women are equally excited about sex. Also, you if you believe that men are ready to pull the gun 24×7, the truth is that men experience daily fluctuations in libido just like women.

2. Myth: Condoms make sex less enjoyable
Fact: This theory is completely wrong! As long as you’re well aroused and excited, sex with condom is as pleasurable as it is without.

3. Myth: Every woman has a G-spot
Fact: Okay, every woman does have a G-spot, but it’s not necessary that every woman’s G-spot is an erogenous zone. Instead of wasting time finding one, we advise you concentrate on other erogenous zones such as the breasts, neck, back and inner thighs.

4. Myth: You can’t get pregnant if you have sex while menstruating
Fact: While there are lesser chances of you getting pregnant during your periods, it does not mean that it’s impossible. Sperms can stay alive inside you for several days, especially if you have a shorter cycle. 
5. Myth: Certain sex positions can determine a baby’s gender
Fact: This notion is completely wrong. Many believe that certain sex positions can help you conceive the gender of the baby you want. Well, it’s not possible. We totally recommend you try whatever sex position you fancy, but don’t expect it help you conceive a girl or boy of your choice.

6. Myth: The withdrawal method won’t get you pregnant
Fact: In case you didn't already know, even pre-ejaculation can get you preggers! So, withdrawing just before you cum is not going to save you from getting pregnant. If you’re avoiding a pregnancy, always use a condom!

7. Myth: Fantasising about someone else in bed is wrong
Fact: Sexual experience starts with your brain, not body. So don’t worry too much if your mind starts wandering. If you are loyal and committed to your man, it’s absolutely alright to fantasise about Bradley Cooper and Ryan Gosling. Yum!

8. Myth: Size matters
Fact: No guy leaves the opportunity to boast about the size of his member. But honestly, size is not barometer for manhood or great sex. Only 4 centimetres of your vaginal canal has sensory nerves for arousal and pleasure, so size really doesn't matter.

Any comments or probably disagreements then tweet at me by following me first on @keeksokafor or drop a comment on the comment bar below. :)

Friday, 3 January 2014

GUYS HEADS UP: THINGS WOMEN CHECK OUT IN GUYS...FIRST!!

   
Happy New year, I'm so excited about this year, you know when you get this tingly feeling on your finger tips? I only expect good things this year. Contrary to popular opinion, guys aren't the only one's that scope people out so listen up fellas this is what we look out for in a guy on the real and ladies that might feel that I'm giving away sacred information? well I say cut 'em some slack girls, they have a right to know *winks*

While men ogle women and start forming their opinion, women too notice a few primal things in men as soon as they see them, and this first unspoken impression opens the door for future communication. Here are five tips to make that first impression count.

1. Physical appearance
Your physique or physical build is the primary feature that any woman notices within a few seconds of seeing you. This includes everything from height to weight, features, hair, eyes and more. So, guys spend some time at the gym to stay healthy inside out. And, don’t forget about personal grooming. Please keep your hands and nails clean.

2. Style sense
In next a few seconds, your fashion and style sense is on her scanning radar. The way you dress up speaks a lot about your personality. This doesn't mean that you have to look like a movie star all the time, but avoid making silly fashion mistakes like wearing sport shoes on formal pants. You may not know, but she will notice all these things and more.

3. Confidence
Women love bold, upfront and confident men who have opinion and views. During initial conversation, she tries to know how confident you are and how you approach things, positively or negatively. Accordingly, they get positive or negative vibes from you. Be positive and humble while talking to a woman and put forward your point too. However, don’t try to lead a conversation, have a conversation with her. Don’t try to act smart.

4. Communication
Women label you boring if you can’t keep up the conversation. So, leave those one-liners, hold her attention and make the session lively. The more you communicate, the more she will know about you. She might notice your communication skills, so be yourself and avoid arrogance.

5. Sense of humour
Women love guys who have a good sense of humour and who can make them laugh. They are quite popular with women and they feel comfortable and candid with such men. Start the first conversation on a light and funny note to churn out the positive results. Avoid dirty jokes during first conversation and earn bonus points with healthy humour.

Believe it or not that pretty much it, the saying women are from mars doesn't come to play with these easy to apply tips do they? Now for you that don't know the drill, drop a line on the comment bar if you've got something to say plus catch me on twitter if you want to make a special blog request :) 

Monday, 30 December 2013

WHY WOMEN GO FOR "TAKEN" MEN

  

OMG it's amazing how this year is running out so quickly, sadly I'm probably one of the very few Nigerians reluctant to let go of 2013. Anyway as we count down to the new year, with plenty hopes and expectations here's hopefully not my last offering for this year :). You know how disgusted and angry some women get when they learn or see a side chick? So I was wondering why side chicks well like doing what they do. Here's my discovery below....
  •  Because You’re Beyond Her Reach 
We women always want what is not meant for us-painful but true- Advise us against something, and we do it anyway. Have you ever seen a chick drooling over diamonds displayed outside showrooms – those that she may never be able to afford? The more out of reach you are, the more she is going to fawn over you.

  • Because She Thinks You Are Safe
You’re harmless. We can flirt all we want without worrying about the consequences. We girls knows you’re taken and that is why we can talk to you freely about our feelings and lure you into the trap because even we knows that there is no way this can work out. Even if it does, it is only going to boost our ego.

  •  Because She Always Hears Good Things About You 
Thanks to your girlfriend, you’re being spoken of fondly in front of every other girl. Girlfriends love to advertise their men, always. Your girl would make it a point to mention (read boast about) the University you graduated from, how you proposed to her in the most romantic way and how you once fixed the tyre in front of her. Of course, your performance in bedroom tops the list. You’re made into this hunk of a man every woman wants.

  •  Because You’re Popular 
This is another benefit of being taken. Date a hot girl and you get some more hot women batting eyelids at you. Every girl compares her life to that of every other girl. They want to have what the other girl has. Since the day you entered in a relationship, you’re all that your girlfriend’s best friends are thinking about. From a single, unknown guy you've suddenly become ‘the man’ every girl desires.

  •  Because It Boosts Their Ego 
Of course, we women like to make a committed man go head over heels with our charm. It tells us that we're still much more desirable than the woman next to you. If you lose your loyalty to your girl for this woman, it is obviously going to boost her ego! It’s a safe game. If you fall into the trap, she wins. If you don’t, then she can always blame it on your relationship status.

  •  Because They Like Challenge
We women know how easy it is to make men fall for us. But taken men are a challenge. They might be content with their girlfriends or they might be the loyal ones who never cheat. But the risk quotient is what entices a chick into the act. She wants to know if you’re really happy in the relationship, and if you’re not, she knows her game well.

  •  Because She Wants To Secretly Compete With Your Girlfriend 
Girls compete, a lot! The day you proposed to your girlfriend was probably the day she pledged to strike back with a bigger bang. She wants to score a point by wavering you off the ‘committed’ track. Girls like to assume that they’re much better than your girlfriend. It’s a competition she wants to win, come what may.

These facts may seem as if I'm like rebelling on my kind lol but it all makes perfect sense to me, if you disagree however feel free to drop your opinion on the comment bar or better still hit me up on twitter. Remember you gotta follow first @keeksokafor 

Friday, 13 December 2013

TRUTHFUL SIGNS HE'S NOT INTO YOU

Here's something cool I want to share with you all, this post is done on special request lol. So I blog on demand, my girl is having man trouble and believes it's because the guy isn't feeling her. This post is to shed some light on that, if your hanging on to a brother and things aren't going as expected check out these signs before you check out of the relationship! This is some real talk!

Do you really know when you should take the hint? Do you really get the feeling that, maybe, your crush will eventually be into you? Girls and guys, you've got to sometimes just realize that there are a lot of signs he's not into you that can help you avoid heartbreak and avoid getting completely attached! So, get ready to figure out if he is into you or not?

1. HE ISN'T READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP

If he/she is saying their not ready for a serious relationship, maybe you should actually take what he is saying to heart, ladies and gents. After all, how many times have you said that exact line when you weren't into your boy of choice? Really, think about this as one of the top signs he's not into you. Now, if he tells you that he isn't ready for a relationship right now, but wants to get to know you better, that is a different conversation!

2. YOU CAN'T GET NEAR HIS PHONE

When you are around your crush, how does he act around you? Does he let you anywhere near his phone? What is he scared of if you do happen to take his phone? This is another sign that your crush might not be with you. After all, what guy doesn't allow you to see any portion of his phone at all?

3. HE DOESN'T REALLY FLIRT WITH YOU

You can usually tell when a guy is flirting with you, but if you aren't getting anything at all from your crush, why are you still lingering? Typically, flirting is something that people do when they are interested – so if your crush isn't doing that, why do you need to stress over him? It isn't worth it!

4. HE STILL HASN'T ASKED YOU OUT

Ah, the dreaded waiting game. Waiting for him to come and ask you out can be horrible and if it still hasn't happened, maybe it won't. Girls and guys, you've got to face it, sometimes, it just isn't going to happen. You've got to really learn that if he still hasn't asked you out after months, you shouldn't put all of your stock into him!

5. NO ADVANCE PLANS

While advanced plans are something to look forward to, does your crush ever just call you up and try to make plans for the next week? Is everything always so last minute? That could be a sign that maybe, he's just not into you and he's using you until something better comes along. Have you ever thought about that before?

6. FORGETS IMPORTANT STUFF

Ah, finally, the last sign that you've got to watch out for whenever you think your crush might not be into you is his memory. Important details about you are things that your crush should remember if he's really into you. If you are constantly reminding your crush about details about you, that's a sign that he is just not into you!
So girls and guys, these are just a few signs that your crush might not be into you.

Take it or leave it, these are very real facts you should consider. Thank me later, hell thank me now on twitter @keeksokafor or drop a comment below.

7 STEPS TO ROCKING YOUR PANTIES RIGHT


Believe it or not there are certain ways to wear your panties, so ladies please take note.
Every woman should have several pairs of panties for different occasions. There are so many underwear choices for women these days that it is easy to get confused about what you should wear and when, though. Thankfully, there are some tried and true underwear selecting tips that will help any woman make the right choice *winks*. It just all depends on your body type, modesty level and how the underwear will work with what you are wearing.
  • Step 1 
Steer clear of see-through mishaps. If you are wearing sheer ( transparent) clothing, it is best to go with a pair of panties that is in a skin tone colour. Lighter women will want to choose a buff or nude colour, while darker women may need a tan or brown undergarment.

  • Step 2 
Make sure that your underwear isn't visible in your outfit. Avoid the peek-a-boo look by choosing a low cut briefs to wear with low ride jeans.

  • Step 3 
Choose the perfect fit. If the underwear rides up, curls up around the waist or pinches, then you will need to choose a larger size. If the underwear sags around the crotch or falls down, you will need to go down in size.

  • Step 4 
Complement your assets. Women who love their booty should choose a fanny flaunting thong or comfy, yet sexy, boy shorts. Show off a toned belly with bikini briefs.

  • Step 5
Hide your flaws. If you need to suck it in or banish a roll, select a control top or slimming pair of panties. These are usually high-waisted panties that push excess fat back so that the stomach looks flatter. These can usually be purchased in most department stores.
  • Step 6 
Add assets. There are now panties that can give you a little extra junk-in-the-trunk- if you know what I mean- without surgery. These panties have padding or silicone in the butt area to give you a little more curve.
  • Step 7 
Lift and separate. There are also "body shaping" panties that are specifically designed to lift the butt and to help users avoid "monobutt." These panties are often made from stretchy, form fitting material. The cheek area is often cut out to create the boost and separation. These panties can be purchased from speciality undergarment shops

I bet you didn't know all this but i'm glad I could help out. it's crazy but true there are mechanisms to wearing underwear lol. Compliments of the season remember if you've got a question for me holler on twitter @keeksokafor or a question drop a comment below! 

Monday, 9 December 2013

READ THE SIGNS-THE FLIRTING SIGNS


It's been a long hiatus and I must say there isn't a good enough excuse for being away for so long. I want to use this opportunity to wish you, you and you a happy holiday's plus remember 2013 isn't over yet so make the rest of this year count if you know what I mean :) .This post is for all the people that share my current relationship status lol-single and ready to mingle- winks. Like I said earlier, the year aint over yet so a fish could be out there to be gotten. Of course to be able to identify this "fish" is a bit tricky that's why it's important to be able to read the signs before you act, here they are:

Men exhibit several common flirting signals. Is he making a point to look into your eyes or stare at you a little longer than necessary? If so, then he is probably flirting and would like to talk to you. Once you start a conversation, he will probably make jokes and compliment your looks or how you are dressed. He may also touch your hand or arm slightly while talking to you.

Women who are flirting exhibit similar behaviours. She might point her shoulders towards you and lean in. When she talks to you, she will make long, deep eye contact and laugh at your jokes. She will often say anything just to keep the conversation going. She might even twirl her fingers around her hair while she is looking at you.

  • Identification
If you are ready to show you are interested and flirt a little bit, you should start by approaching the other person and standing very close to them while you say hello. Look them in the eye and begin a casual conversation. Saying something humorous is a great way to flirt. If you find that you have the same sense of humour, you're headed in the right direction. Ask the other person about themselves and really listen to what they have to say. Then, later in conversation, bring up something that they have said about themselves to show that you have been listening.
  • Effects
Confidence is a big turn on for both males and females. If you wish to flirt, be sure to exude that confidence. It is sexy and alluring. Knowing you are someone who is worth loving and being desired shows on your face when you begin to flirt with someone of the opposite sex.
  • Considerations
Body language plays a large part when it comes to flirting. If someone is looking at you with raised eyebrows and an intense stare, they are probably interested. Open posture is also important. If someone is standing with their body open to you and not with crossed arms and a tense face, this shows that they are open to get to know you. Women often flick their hair when they are flirting. They also tend to lick their lips and glance down and to the side after they have been caught looking at you.

With all said and done I'll leave you to practice these tips and bag the girl/guy of your dream!!! Remember to follow me on twitter on @keeksokafor or for any question or comments concerning this post drop a comment below.

Friday, 15 November 2013

SLIMMING METHODS TO DIE FOR


Okay so I'm currently an unhappy size 12 and I'm day dreaming,of the day I'll hit an 8 then eventually a 6.plus did I mention my target of Christmas? So this particular post is for all of you that are unhappy with your weight such as I am. These techniques are incredible and I can't lie that I've attempted any of 'em but the whole point is for people to see the extreme measures/ lengths people will go through just to loose weight. Enjoy...


1. Paleo Diet

The Paleo Diet (short for Paleolithic, also known as the Caveman Diet) has grown in popularity over the past two years. The concept is a serious throwback — 10,000 years to be exact — and consists of eating mostly fish, meats (pasture-raised and humanely killed), vegetables, roots, nuts and fruits. The diet excludes anything “refined” — including dairy, sugars, processed oils, legumes and grains. It’s a sacrifice, to say the least, but its adherents swear by it. Paleo-friendly dishes have also been increasingly incorporated into the menus of many restaurants across the country.

2. Five-Bite Diet

As wacky as some diets may be, at least their names are easily understood. The idea is simple: Take only five bites of a meal at any one time, regardless of its content. The premise behind the crash diet is that individuals’ bodies will readjust and feel full much quicker after a few days. The doctor who created the diet claims to have lost 60 pounds in only 40 days while following these rules. At last, could we have found a way to lose weight while eating McDonald’s?

3. Baby Food Diet

Thank you, Jennifer Aniston and Reese Witherspoon. Only in Hollywood could such a stir be caused over baby food. The buzzed-about trend involves replacing some (“adult”) meals with up to 14 jars of baby food, which has been touted for its vitamin content, pureness and lack of additives. In addition to the nutritional benefits offered by the gooey stuff, portions are small enough to control cravings and avoid the temptation to overeat. Having trouble remembering what exactly you ate as an infant? We’re talking about pureed vegetables, meats and fruits.

4. Dukan Diet

The diet is rumored to be a favorite of Kate Middleton’s, who is most certainly a portrait of fitness. The protein-based weight loss plan originated in France and is based on eating exclusively from a list of 100 allowed foods, which includes several meat and seafood options as well as most vegetables. The diet consists of four phases: Attack, Cruise, Consolidation and Stabilization, with more foods allowed to be consumed as the program moves along.

5. Cabbage Soup Diet

The weeklong plan promises the loss of up to 10 pounds based largely on heavy consumption of, well, cabbage soup. The soup is easy to make and includes a variety of vegetables, including onions, carrots, mushrooms and tomatoes. The radical diet promotes eating various quantities of fruits and vegetables in addition to the soup, and allows beef in the later days. Critics argue that most of the weight lost is water and therefore not permanent, and that the diet lacks protein and is overly bland, while supporters maintain that spicy additions to the soup allow variety and help flavor.

6. P90X Diet

The diet program and home exercise regimen – 12 DVDs are included – claims to transform bodies from “regular to ripped” in 90 days. The plan involves three stages – Fat Shredder, Energy Booster and Endurance Maximizer. Dieters transition from eliminating almost all carbs and reducing caloric intake (around 1,800 per day) to introducing complex carbohydrate proteins and recommended meal plans.

7. Tapeworm Diet

Insane? Check. Disgusting? Check. The tapeworm diet revolves around the belief that introducing a tapeworm into the body means that all consumed food will be split between human and worm, which makes its way through its host’s digestive system. There is even reason to believe that tapeworm pills were marketed in the U.S. in the early 20th century. Of course, ingesting a tapeworm is essentially infecting oneself with a foreign living organism. The worm can even deviate into other parts of the body, including the brain, with potentially deadly results. Additional side effects include a vitamin deficiency and the fact that possessing tapeworms is illegal in America.

8. Hollywood Diet

Created by a self-proclaimed “diet counselor to the stars” and claiming that its followers can lose up to 10 pounds in two days, the Hollywood “Miracle” Diet consists of drinking a juice product as a complete meal replacement for either 24 or 48 hours. During this short period, dieters cannot eat or drink anything else. A more comprehensive version of the plan involves following the short-term diet and then substituting one meal per day for another Hollywood Diet product, a meal replacement made from 16 fruits and vegetables, for the next 30 days.

9. 4-Hour Body Diet

In the wise words of its inventor Timothy Ferriss, “Just stay up all night and eat.” The diet consists of saying goodbye to white carbs (bread, rice, pasta, cereal, potatoes and even whole grains and oats) and consuming the same four meals (legumes, meat and vegetables) for six straight days. On the seventh day, dieters are encouraged to binge-eat as much as they’d like, with the intention of stopping their metabolic rate slowing down from extended calorific restriction. Need even more convincing? The author recommends drinking two glasses of red wine every day to burn fat.

10. Acai Berry Diet

Almost everyone has heard of the “super berry” by now, and its reported antioxidant effects. While there is no specific diet associated with the fruit, advocates maintain that its consumption enhances general well-being and vitality, which aids weight loss. Still skeptical? Oprah publically revealed that she incorporated the berry into her diet.

11. Blood Type Diet

Founded on the principles of a naturopathic physician, the diet holds that blood type is the most important factor in determining a healthy lifestyle and recommends distinct eating plans for each type. For example, the doctor emphasizes the importance of vegetables and lack of red meat for individuals with blood type A and states that those with blood type B are the only group who can thrive on dairy products. For those of you out there with type AB, be advised that you are known as “the enigma.”

Remember for any  questions or comments follow me on twitter it's @keeksokafor or simply drop a line on the comments bar. The countdown to the end of the year starts NOW!!

Monday, 14 October 2013

WHAT TYPE OF GIRLFRIEND ARE YOU

 

Well as it is apparently fellas have classified us-we women- in categories. It makes it easier when searching for "THE ONE" i guess. Well ladies here are the categories available and only you can classify yourself. So read, enjoy and classify!! For you guys if you've been finding it hard to ;place your lady love/lust, here's that insight you never saw coming lol :)

The Alpha
She’s more experienced than you, possibly older and definitely wiser. She’s not like the air head type of girls you've been out with before; Alpha has a PHD, mortgage on her own is immaculately groomed at all times. She knows what she wants - in the bedroom, boardroom and beyond — and it’s incredibly attractive. But it takes a strong and secure man to be with an Alpha woman, one who’s happy to stay home with the kids whilst she kicks ass at work and not be fazed by her success.

The Homebody
You met when her dinner party turned into a mini party and a mate of a mate introduced you. She’s hugely social but favors nights in, cooking and drinking with friends or the local pub rather than fancy clubs. You like her because she avoids conflict or drama and makes you feel looked after. She’s good in relationships and doesn't do one-night stands. You’ll date for a couple of years before either the passion dies and one of you craves something more exciting, or you’ll get married.

The Hot Mess
Rarely awake before midday (unless still up from the night before, of course), she’s got bed-head hair, a smoking hot body toned from dancing and tanned from festivals. You met on a night out. Hot Mess is not looking for a boyfriend; she’s looking for a party-buddy. But whilst a long-term relationship may not be on the table, you’ll have a hell of a time dancing on them.

Your Mate
You've always fancied her a bit, but considered her one of the boys rather than viable girlfriend material. Then, one night, both single and intoxicated, one thing leads to another. Before you know it you’re shagging your best friend. Which is fine. You probably feel more comfortable around her than any other girl you've been out with. She’s hot, makes you laugh and might actually be The One. Or, you’ll wake up with a head full of regret and ruin one of your strongest friendships.

The Kooky Girl
She’s works with children, in art or for somewhere non-profit. She’s prone to cancelling because she doesn't like to plan, instead relies on instinct. You’ll spend nights drinking red wine out of jam jars, talking about feelings or having tantric sex. Compared to your need for planning, structure and organisation, Kooky Girl is a breath of fresh air and helps you chill out a bit. But the flakiness might bug you eventually.

The Totally Unsuitable Completely Inappropriate Woman
Your boss, mate’s sister or ex-girlfriend who broke your heart. The slightly crazy co-worker, vacuous socialite, married woman or girl your friends hate because she already slept with two of them and can’t be trusted. Dating someone who is explicitly wrong for you is important not only to help you realize what you want from a relationship, but you’ll have one hell of a story to tell for years to come.

Even Men have categories, everyone does but its time you take a look at the lady in the mirror. If you don't like what you see? change it before it's too late. Lorry loads of love and you know the drill already @keeksokafor is the handle for further questions for comments drop a line below!
 

Tuesday, 8 October 2013

SOME REASONS MEN CHEAT

 
Like I had initially stated I've been bolted awake so i'm totally gingered and rearing to go lool. Okay that sounded a bit cliche but here are some reasons men cheat. I scoured around the internet to find these helpful reason so we women can know why and come to terms and have some kind of closure. So ladies thank me later and fellas feel free to drop a comment and correct me if i'm wrong.

1. Fights at Home
When a man fights regularly with his wife and these quarrels are left unsolved, the man becomes unhappy and disturbed. He can either fight back or simply flee. The latter scenario may be the reason why men cheat on their wives. Because when they look for an affair, they search for someone that brings them calmness and understanding, therefore a parallel life and support.(side comment) ...kinda makes it sound like men are cowards huh? *shrugs* sounds that way to me too.

2. Boredom
This is another reason why guys cheat on their girlfriends and wives. Some men may find couple routine a little dull and instead of changing their situation, they find another relationship that will offer them the spark their current relationship lacks. They want to experiment something new and fresh and they are willing to take the risk.(side comment) ...did I hear some girl shout inconsiderate!? amen sister!

3. Sexual Experimentation
Sex represents an important aspect of a relationship. Some men are easily bored so they are willing to experiment more sexually. They like to have a lot of sexual partners and if the occasion arrives, they will not back off. Perhaps this makes them feel powerful and experts at bed talk!(side comment)...W.T.F I mean literally w.t.f?

4. Family History
Some men may have witnessed cheating in their parent’s marriage and this might have transmitted them a message that it is okay to cheat. Our parents are in fact our first teachers because we learn from them each and every day, so seeing one of your parents cheat makes you think that this is the normal thing to do, when in fact it may bring a lot of suffering. (side comment)...smh now there's a justification for every evil thing on planet earth!

5. Temptation Is Too Big
Some men like to live in chaos and they want to enjoy every temptation that might come along. The adrenaline rush that they get from cheating with another women is definitely a thrill and they love it, therefore they yield to temptation every time it comes along. (side comment)...okay relate-able but still remember the good book says flee from temptation. 

6. Insecurity
There are some men that don’t feel good about themselves and they need the validation of women (others than their wives or girlfriends) to still feel desirable to the opposite sex.(side comment)...and those men shall be called women!

7. Compulsory Cheating
This is in fact a real medical condition that should be treated. A compulsive cheater needs medical help and our recommendation would be to leave the relationship before it’s too late.(side comment)...so that's what its called in cheating language. It's some one like a kleptomaniac.  

Interesting stuff really, I have to apologize that I couldn't help but make those side comments. Meanwhile, like I said initially fellas if you have something to dispute on this holler on the comments bar or talk to me directly follow me on twitter its @keeksokafor -yeah cheap ass publicity I know-.

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Monday, 23 September 2013

HOW TO GET BIGGER BOOBS

  
This is something for the ladies. I know of many women who desire larger, fuller breasts, many women with the exception of me that is. There are several options to reach your target of bigger boobs,you can get surgical breast enlargement but it can be painful, it may cause health problems in future and is super expensive. Fortunately, there are several natural techniques you can use to increase your breast size. Although these methods vary in their safety and effectiveness, they are all inexpensive and available without a prescription.

Put Up Some Weight

Human breasts are composed almost entirely of fat, and they tend to shrink after a woman experiences weight loss. So, consider eating a diet rich in healthy, high-calorie foods like olive oil, walnuts, peanuts and reduced-fat cheese. Weight gain will almost inevitably cause an increase in breast size.*winks*

High-Soy Diet

Soy is rich in estrogen-like compounds known as isoflavones, according to the U.S. National Institutes of Health. The NIH regards soy as a theoretical and unproven method for increasing breast size. In theory, minimally processed soy foods can cause an increase in levels of the breast-boosting hormone estrogen. Eat a diet rich in tofu, tempeh, edamame and soy milk to improve your breast size, but note that heavily processed soy "burgers" and "cheese" contain little of the plant's estrogen-boosting compounds.

Herbal Supplements

Several herbal supplements are touted as natural breast enhancers, but several clinics around the globe question the safety and effectiveness of these compounds. The National Institutes of Health (USA) states that licorice, one of the most popular herbal breast enlargers, contains compounds that elevate levels of the lactation-related hormones estrogen and prolactin. Red clover is a source of isoflavones similar to those found in soy, and blessed thistle has been used for centuries as a breast enlarger and lactation stimulant. Therefore, using any of these products is not recommended, particularly if you have a medical condition or a family history of breast cancer.

Those are some ways to get 'em bigger!! lol get more cushion in front so those cleavage baring clothes you've always wanted but because of your deficiency couldn't ever wear? now you can. Thank me later or now even by dropping a comment or follow me on twitter @keeksokafor.

Monday, 16 September 2013

LET'S "GO DOWN LOW" FOR MUSCLE EXERCISE

Today I'm focusing on Kegel exercises,it's been commonly mentioned but scarcely practiced. I don't know how many are even aware of what those exercises are for and it's importance so let me give you a brief history then get right into it...but there's a twist in this tale for those of you that are aware of Kegel exercise you should know that it isn't for women alone. Read up:

Where did Kegels originate? In the mid-1900s, Dr. Arnold Kegel developed his Kegel exercise for women experiencing urinary incontinence. During followup examinations, the women reported an amazing side effect: Kegels helped their vagina's become a lot more sensitive during intercourse. Of course, this intrigued Dr. Kegel and, subsequently, he found that doing Kegels exercised the pubococcygeal (PC) muscle—the muscl group that forms the orgasmic platform.

Think Kegel exercises are just for women? Think again. Kegel exercises for men can strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which support the bladder and bowel and affect sexual function. With practice, Kegel exercises for men can be done discreetly just about anytime — whether you're relaxing on the couch or driving your car. Before you start doing Kegel exercises, find out how to locate the correct muscles and understand the proper technique.

Many factors can weaken a man's pelvic floor muscles, including the surgical removal of the prostate (radical prostatectomy) and conditions such as diabetes and overactive bladder.

You might benefit from doing Kegel exercises if you:


  • Have urinary or fecal incontinence
  • Dribble after urination — usually after you've left the bathroom
  • Some studies suggest that Kegel exercises for men might also benefit some men who have erectile dysfunction. However, further research is needed.

How to do Kegel exercises for men
It takes diligence to identify your pelvic floor muscles and understand how to contract and relax them. Here are some pointers: Unfortunately,very few people have made Kegels a daily habit.  Find the right muscles. To identify your pelvic floor muscles, stop urination in midstream or tighten the muscles that keep you from passing gas. These are your pelvic floor muscles. If you contract your pelvic floor muscles while looking in the mirror, the base of your penis will move closer to your abdomen and your testicles will rise.

Perfect your technique. Once you've identified your pelvic floor muscles, empty your bladder and lie on your back with your knees bent and apart. Tighten your pelvic floor muscles, hold the contraction for three seconds, and then relax for three seconds. Try it a few times in a row but don't overdo it. When your muscles get stronger, try doing Kegel exercises while sitting, standing or walking. Maintain your focus. For best results, focus on tightening only your pelvic floor muscles. Be careful not to flex the muscles in your abdomen, thighs or buttocks. Avoid holding your breath. Instead, breathe freely during the exercises. Repeat 3 times a day. Aim for at least three sets of 10 repetitions a day.

Kegel's are a must for both male and female. Do it daily and like any other exercise marvel at the results. Remember the handle hasn't changed @keeksokafor plus a comment on what you think about the post after the jump.

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Thursday, 12 September 2013

SMALLER BALLS BETTER PARENTS!

  

This is a very incredible finding, so incredible I had to share. If you remember a few months ago i shared with you how "size" does matter with this post you'll understand just how important size is *winks* enjoy. 

Men with small testicles are likely to be more nurturing and better fathers to their children. A new study from Emory University finds that men who tend to be a loving parent also have smaller testicles. This study showed that men with smaller testes exhibited more nurturing activity in their brains when shown pictures of their children. Also, separate surveys from their respective female partners showed that these men were more involved in the upbringing of their children. Larger sized testicles seemed to indicate men who were built for competition with other men to make women pregnant, but not so much to care for the child

Researchers  measured the testicle size of 70 new fathers from the Atlanta area between 21 and 43 years old. They also analyzed their brain activity in regions implicated in parental motivation when shown images of their child and quizzed their wives about the man's involvement in child rearing. Testes volume is associated with sperm production and testosterone levels — the bigger the balls, the more sperm and testosterone the man produces. In the study, the researchers also found that testes volume is related to how involved a man is in his child's life.

Smaller balls and lower testosterone levels were independently correlated to more parental involvement. Larger testicle volume and higher testosterone levels were correlated to less involvement.

So I guess the appropriate question would be for the married men; How big is your balls? :) answer that in the comment section or just follow me twitter it's :@keeksokafor

Monday, 2 September 2013

RELATIONSHIP THERAPY

 

Alright here we go: Happy New Month KIK-EETE's, this is my first brand new offering for the month of September. Enjoy. We all know that at some point in our various relationships we'll hit hard times so here's something neat I came across to help us all deal it's a kind of do-it-yourself thing. Plus dealing in this case is making it work and you know using these tips to formulate a blue print that works for your relationship, like I say all the time thank me later :)

While most relationships have their share of ups and downs, very few couples are willing or able to invest the time and/or money that traditional relationship therapy would cost. This doesn't mean that they're more or less committed to the success of their relationship than other couples - only that they have different limits as to what they find as an acceptable intrusion into their private lives (particularly when it comes to a third party such as a therapist).  You can do this as one partner or as a couple, although it's much more effective when both people participate. We've become a society of do-it-yourselfers, so it only makes sense that we're bringing this idea into the more personal aspects of our lives rather than the simple home improvement projects.

Positive thinking is a great place to start. Whenever the roads of romance become a little too rocky for comfortable travel, it's time to take a step back and remind each other why you fell in love in the first place. Make a list. Remind each other of the wonderful person you are when not bothered with the worries of the world, children, finances, and the world outside the circle of your arms.There are many different styles of self-therapy that you can use.  A highly recommended style of relationship therapy is known as the Imago, which is Latin for 'match' style. The important thing is that you take as many steps as possible together.

Role-playing is another great way to obtain valuable insight as to how you perceive your partner as well as how he or she sees you. You may learn a lot about how the English language is inadequate at expressing your precise messages. You may intend to say one thing and your partner may hear something else entirely. It's important to learn how to communicate with one another positively and accurately. Working together through self-therapy and role-playing can help you achieve that.
Finally don't forget to do the needful, first follow me on twitter lol @keeksokafor and second drop a comment on anything you don't get , i'll treat it. Have a blessed month ahead.

Wednesday, 28 August 2013

ABORTION BILL


Now this isn't for the faint hearted or the puritants the abortion debate is as old as time and I figure everyone has their own opinion. This has caused quite a stir as it were in Imo state, eastern Nigeria. Here's the scoop.

Imo State governor, Chief Rochas Okorocha, and Catholic Medical Practitioners Association are at daggers-drawn over the abortion bill the former just signed into law. The law, among others, permits women to procure abortion at will. Sponsored by the Majority Leader and member representing Ahiazu Mbaise state constituency, Mrs. Adekunle Ihuoma, the law is to be cited as "Imo State of Nigeria, Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Law Number 12 of 2012".

According to the new law, every woman shall have the right to enjoy reproductive rights, including rights to medical abortion in cases of sexual assault, rape, incest and where the continued pregnancy endangers the life or the physical, mental, psychological or emotional health of the mother.

The law also stipulates that "every woman shall have the right to take decisions about her health needs and requirements." The law was very specific that a woman "shall have the right to determine the processes concerning reproduction in her body." Okorocha also approved that every woman should have a right to health, which should be understood to mean enjoyment of the highest level of physical, mental and social well-being and healthcare services. These provisions include everything relating to family planning.

Chairman, Catholic Medical Practitioners Association, Dr. Phillip Njemanze, has reacted angrily to the law, arguing that "the law is anti-God, dehumanizing and totally unacceptable to the association. "The law is devastating. With its signing into law by Governor Okorocha, abortion has been legalized in the state and anybody, just anybody can now ask for abortion as a right in the state." While recalling that the National Assembly had earlier rejected the bill, especially as it was against humanity, Njemanze reasoned that the law would encourage human egg trafficking. 
  • Culled from allafrica.com

This is it, I completely support the Governor for this bold move and any other thing that might emanate because of this law, let me leave you with this you can't have advantages without disadvantages viagra was created to cure impotency not to forget what its being used to do nowadays... drop a line let me know your stand on this new law or holler via twitter @keeksokafor