THE SIGNS: SHE WANTS YOU TO MAKE A MOVE!

   

Okay I Understand it's 2014 and we women have to take the bull by the horn, I'm not arguing with that notion I'm just providing other ways we women can tell you we're interested without coming out rightly and blurting it out. For the women that still want to remain coy and demeanour-kinda like me-here are the "things" we do.  Plus after I have shared all this fellas use your initiative will ya?! Enough said...

9) The Head Rest

The casual head rest is a major sign we want to get closer to you. We are literally inviting you into our personal space by invading yours. We're not just brushing something off your jumper -- we are placing our face near your face. In terms of all (non-sexual) body parts in close proximity, the face is one of the most intimate -- you wouldn't want your face close to someone you didn't find attractive.

8) The Eyelash Bat

If you're noticing us holding your gaze for longer than normal -- and then looking down to the floor shyly -- know you've captured our interest. In a completely platonic encounter, maintaining eye contact shouldn't prove a challenge because we're not threatened or embarrassed or self-conscious (unless we're incredibly embarrassed or self-conscious normally). But if we can't maintain eye contact and seem nervous, it's probably because we're really into you. Which makes us nervous.

7) The Thigh-On-Hand

The more intimate we feel towards you or think about you, the more likely we are to find reasons to touch you... pretty much everywhere we can. Obviously the easiest spot to touch -- and most innocent -- is near your penis. Just kidding! It'd be your shoulder or your upper arm. So if we're putting a hand on your thigh (or anywhere near your junk), chances are it is very intentional and we are definitely thinking about touching very close by. Now would certainly be the time to make a follow-up move.

6) The Getting Comfy

Any time we willingly cozy up next to you or find a reason to minimise the personal space between the two of us it means we want to feel your body next to ours. Ask yourself: Would you do that with a woman you weren't thinking about naked? No woman wants to feel a man's body next to theirs if they're not interested in a little make out.

5) The Boob Graze

Read with caution: Not all women use their boobs as a flirting tool -- some of us have just been overly blessed by nature, or maybe we couldn't be bothered to find our "good" bra that day so they're a bit less strapped down than normal. End of story. But for some other women using your boobs is a sign she wants you to make a move.

4) The Hand Brush

This is a move that's not too invasive and one that's easily ignored if not noticed -- which is what makes it such a great move. If a woman brushes her hand against yours once, it could be an awkward mistake. Twice? No chance. If it is a mistake, chances are we will laugh awkwardly and actually bring up in conversation the awkwardness that just happened. But. If we meant to do it, we won't say anything until we get up the courage to try it again. So if her hand brushes against yours (twice), grab her hand. That's what she wants.

3) The Tickle Trick

Tickling involves some heavy contact. You're not doing it right if you're not on the ground, on top of the person you're tickling as they're writhing around in a fit below you. Given this, it's not exactly for two people who don't want a lot of physical contact (or the occasional boob graze amidst all the action)

2) The Yawn-And-Lean

If you're moving towards the end of an evening and a woman is tired, she will yawn and say she's tired and wants to go home. If a woman is tired and wants you to come with her home, she will give you some major signals. One such signal? If you're sitting near one another, and she yawns and leans her head or reaches out and rests her hand on your shoulder or chest before she says she wants to go home, she is definitely telling you she doesn't want to go home alone. Think about it: She's practically physically pulling you into her bed.

1) The Lean-And-Touch

Similar to the 'yawn-and-lean', this is probably one of the most-used major signals meaning we're into you and want you to make a move. It's innocent enough to be taken as innocent flirting (in case you don't feel the same way back) and strong enough to be noticed.

That's it basically all you guys have to do is notice these tell tale signs of opening, and jump through that crack without looking back lol. Thank me later...heck thank me now! first hit the follow button on twitter; my handle @keeksokafor or drop a comment below :)