Monday, 9 December 2013

READ THE SIGNS-THE FLIRTING SIGNS


It's been a long hiatus and I must say there isn't a good enough excuse for being away for so long. I want to use this opportunity to wish you, you and you a happy holiday's plus remember 2013 isn't over yet so make the rest of this year count if you know what I mean :) .This post is for all the people that share my current relationship status lol-single and ready to mingle- winks. Like I said earlier, the year aint over yet so a fish could be out there to be gotten. Of course to be able to identify this "fish" is a bit tricky that's why it's important to be able to read the signs before you act, here they are:

Men exhibit several common flirting signals. Is he making a point to look into your eyes or stare at you a little longer than necessary? If so, then he is probably flirting and would like to talk to you. Once you start a conversation, he will probably make jokes and compliment your looks or how you are dressed. He may also touch your hand or arm slightly while talking to you.

Women who are flirting exhibit similar behaviours. She might point her shoulders towards you and lean in. When she talks to you, she will make long, deep eye contact and laugh at your jokes. She will often say anything just to keep the conversation going. She might even twirl her fingers around her hair while she is looking at you.

  • Identification
If you are ready to show you are interested and flirt a little bit, you should start by approaching the other person and standing very close to them while you say hello. Look them in the eye and begin a casual conversation. Saying something humorous is a great way to flirt. If you find that you have the same sense of humour, you're headed in the right direction. Ask the other person about themselves and really listen to what they have to say. Then, later in conversation, bring up something that they have said about themselves to show that you have been listening.
  • Effects
Confidence is a big turn on for both males and females. If you wish to flirt, be sure to exude that confidence. It is sexy and alluring. Knowing you are someone who is worth loving and being desired shows on your face when you begin to flirt with someone of the opposite sex.
  • Considerations
Body language plays a large part when it comes to flirting. If someone is looking at you with raised eyebrows and an intense stare, they are probably interested. Open posture is also important. If someone is standing with their body open to you and not with crossed arms and a tense face, this shows that they are open to get to know you. Women often flick their hair when they are flirting. They also tend to lick their lips and glance down and to the side after they have been caught looking at you.

With all said and done I'll leave you to practice these tips and bag the girl/guy of your dream!!! Remember to follow me on twitter on @keeksokafor or for any question or comments concerning this post drop a comment below.

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