TIPS ON HOW TO CATCH "HIS" EYE

Now in my bid to make every lady happy :) , I understand it's hard out there being single and all. I also understand we're in 2013 for petes sake so waiting on the man to make the first move is so 1930! Here are some tips on how to get his attention and...let nature and your careful manipulations take it's course *winks*

Love stories are a dime a dozen in high school. People seem to effortlessly couple up all around you. Meanwhile, you've got the opposite problem. You are madly in love with someone who doesn't know you exist. The one you live and breathe for is right before your eyes yet so far away.

The crush… It’s terrifying and thrilling all at once. Everything would be great if only he knew, right?

Now you may be thinking that your body's reaction to a crush would get easier with age and as much as I’d like to tell you that it does get easier with age. But sadly, it doesn't. The same nervous/nauseous feeling you get when he passes by you when you were younger is exactly the same whether you’re 15 or 25 or 35. Luckily, you can turn a crush around in your favor. You've just got to know a few secrets to get his attention.

Check His Crushability

Before you do anything, evaluate if this is someone worth crushing on. I mean you could be attracted to a guy, spend 10 minutes in his presence and be absolutely repulsed by his personality. Ask around. Who are his friends? Does he go to church? You can save yourself a lot of time and heartache if you do a little research. Some times all you have to do is observe. How does he act towards people who aren't as popular as he is? Is he nice or self centered? Very simple gestures say a lot about someone’s character. Be sure he’s a good guy before you decide to let your feelings take over.

Do Not Chase Him

I know it’s tempting. When you see something you want, you would want to go for it. However, we have to restrain ourselves from asking guys out and making our intentions too obvious. Society makes it look like women who ask men out are empowered, but nothing could be further from the truth. Guys like a challenge. Anything gotten too easily won’t be worth keeping in the long run -remember that-. Seriously speaking though, when a guy really wants you, he will go through fire to get your phone number. They love it. Don’t ask me why. It’s a Braveheart thing.

Modesty = Mystery = He’ll Want to Know More

Lots of girls will tell you to show a little leg or cleavage to catch a guy's attention. It works. He’ll notice you all right, but for all the wrong reasons. It’s no secret that boys are visually stimulated. If you show off all your goodies, then that’s all he’ll think you’re good for. Instead of seeing you as an intelligent, gorgeous girl, he'll be preoccupied with what you look like naked. There are plenty of ways to dress hot without exposing yourself. So leave a little to the imagination. The more he has to hunt, the more he’ll want to know.

Be a Friend

Someone once told me that the best way to make friends is to be a friend. A smile and a "hi" can go a long way. I know it’s hard to fathom when you can barely breathe around him, but try to focus. I know a lot of people who lament being friends with someone they’re romantically interested in, but that’s the best place to start. Trust me. Sixty years from now, it’s the friendship that will lead you into the golden, wrinkly, saggy years of marriage.

Try the Group Thing

I know you might think group dates is a bad idea.You probably think how in the world can you get to know someone with three of his friends hanging around? But when it comes to crushes, this is a fantastic way to get to know him in a less pressured situation. His circle of friends plus yours create a comfort zone. You'll both be in your element. If you get a chance to participate in anything where he’ll be involved, go! Try it out. Expand beyond what you've always done and join a new club. If he doesn't end up working out, you may discover a love for a new thing you never tried before.

Get a Life and Live it

Nothing is more attractive than someone who fully embraces her life. Let him see you hanging out with your friends, singing in the choir, or doing whatever you do best. If he sees how much you enjoy yourself, perhaps he’ll want to join in the fun.

Be God’s Girl

You can't forget that you are first and foremost God's girl. You are the delight of His creation, and He loves you. The safest place to fall in love is in the Father's arms. So put your trust and faith in Him. He promises that He'll never leave you lonely (Hebrews 13:5). So whether or not this guy ever gets a clue as to how wonderful you are, you can rest in the fact that there is a Heavenly Father who moved heaven and earth to be with you. It’s the crush of a lifetime, and it lasts for all eternity

There!! I know this will probably not be what alot my sister's would be expecting to read but I had to come at it from an angle that I would actually practice these tips. It's all subtle and all meaning full so grab the bull by the horns girl and good luck while your at it!