Thursday, 2 August 2012

SHE LOVES ME, SHE LOVES ME NOT!

 

I have been on the matter of the female for a while now so i decided to put something up for the guys. I understand that picking up women isn't easy lol so i decided to give you guys some clues to help you "toast" better. Now have you ever found yourself in a situation that you've gotten your toasting swag on and your feeling really good with yourself but your just not sure if the chick is "feeling you"? well here are just 4 little tips that can help you,note these tips don't mean she's fallen for you it just means she's interested in you and that  you’ve got enough rapport to begin to escalate the conversation to a more intimate level. *winks*

Signs a woman might be interested?

1. She is laughing at your jokes, even when they’re not funny

If a girl is being the perfect audience, laughing on cue, egging you on to talk more, and has a big smiled plastered across her face the entire time you’re talking it is a pretty clear indication that she’s enjoying your company. When we laugh at someone we unconsciously are saying “I like you. And I’m listening to what you’re saying.” And if she is going out of her way to make sure that she’s laughing … she is also going out of her way to encourage you to keep talking. Just be careful not to confuse true laughter with a nervous giggle.

2. She tells you to take a sip of her drink

This one has been an almost 100% indicator for me over the years that a woman was ready to be kissed.
If you’re at a bar talking to a woman, and she hands you her drink and says something like “Try my drink.” Or if she encourages you in any way to take a sip of her drink, she is unconsciously telling you that she is comfortable with you on a more intimate level. This is a great “little known” how to tell if a girl likes you.

3. She asks you if you have a girlfriend or pries for the information

When a woman is around a man that she is becoming attracted to, she will almost always try to find out if he has a girlfriend. Most women will flat out ask. If she doesn't flat out ask, she’ll most likely ask questions that pry for the information like “Who do you live with?” Or if you just told a story about going on vacation or to a concert, she’ll say “Who did you go with?” If a woman has no interest in you whatsoever, she very rarely will care whether or not you have a girlfriend.

4. She calls you a player
Strange ba?
Most guys would assume that if a girl says “you’re such a player” that she is probably not interested.  But this is just one of those counter-intuitive things you figure out with enough time talking to women. If a woman calls you a player, two things have already been accomplished. The first is that she has become comfortable enough around you to say that sort of thing. And the second, is that she views you as the sort of guy who is used to talking to women.

If a woman ever makes this sort of statement, simply view it as a “shit test” and go on with the conversation as usual. DO NOT defend yourself or try to prove to her that you aren't. In fact, the best response is to just smile and say “Is it that obvious?” and proceed with the conversation as if it was never said. There are various other “indicators of interest” that some dating gurus recommend looking out for such as body language, eye contact, and verbal cues. Watch out for these as well  

*sighs* this dating game is pretty tricky but "we shall overcome" lol guys u can take these tips to the bank and thank me later!!



2 comments:

Timi Richie said...

I almost call u a date doctor but, i've come 2 realise dat u are a lady...lol

Unknown said...

Intresting...lol!