If i am to drop my two cents about the matter of dating, kissing plays such a vital part in it!! if your gonna hold him/her in that relationship you have to be a knock out kisser!! But a bad kiss can end a romantic rendezvous-trust me- now here are the tips to be the best kisser out there. By the way i'd love to take the glory of giving out the tips *blushing* but no i came across this lady Tracey Cox and this is what she had to say:
TAKE IT SLOW
You want to be a sensual, sexy kisser right? So remember that plunging in and drilling your tongue around your lover's mouth washing machine-style isn't going to turn anyone on.
Instead, start by gently kissing the object of your affection on the lips. Do this a few times until you can feel they're wanting more. Then, try slowly putting your tongue inside their mouth, gently rubbing their tongue with yours. Hopefully by this stage you'll both be turned on and ready for some full-on tongue to tongue action.
Let's get physical
A good kiss isn't all about lips and tongues. There's so much more to being a good kisser.
Let's start with posture. Naturally your bodies are going to be pretty close. But to start, if you really want to make them want you, make sure your bodies aren't fully in contact. Then, as things start to hot up, press your body firmly against theirs. Don't forget your hands too, they can make the difference between an average kiss and an awesome kiss. Slowly stroke your partner's body. Their back, face, hair, legs, bum. Whatever feels good for you.
It's all about the confidence
Try to relax, remember, kissing is fun! Having fresh breath will ensure you're more confident and relaxed, so remember to brush your teeth and tongue to avoid any embarrassment. Be passionate - a bored kisser will never deliver a good smooch. But most importantly, believe you are a good kisser you will double your kissing capacity.
Remember, the person kissing you is (almost definitely) doing so because they find you sexy. That's right. You're sexy. Embrace it.
Mix it up
A monotonous tongue-rubbing-against-tongue rhythm can get a little dull. So if you want to be a good kisser, you've got to mix it up. Be creative. Gently chew on their lower lip, suck their top lip. Move up to their ears, suck their earlobe and gently bite their ear. Trail some soft kisses along their neck and then come back to their mouth, gently tugging on their bottom lip. Let your tongue wander around their mouth.
Listen to your partner
Remember to be in tune with your kissing partner. Just as with sex, everyone is turned on by different things. The Zoosk survey found that most British men prefer a soft, sensual kiss, whereas most British women prefer a full on French kiss. But everyone's different. Listen to your partner and watch what they're doing with their body. You'll soon work out which of your kissing tecnhiques are turning them on.
Before i leave you remember to drop a thank you to me and of course Tracey on this blog when you hit kissing super stardom *winks*.
