WOULD YOU DATE A GUY THAT EARNS LESS THAN YOU DO?

TLC's Chilli was a guest on a TV show recently and they asked her if she could ever date a man who earns less than her. Her response below...

“I’m very picky, I guess you want to call it that. Here’s my issue with ‘dating down’ – it sounds bad, it makes us seem shallow - the problem with dating down I think that for a female, no matter how much money you make or not, every woman wants to feel like a princess, you know. I don’t look for a guy to pay my bills, I can pay my own bills. I can do a lot of things for myself. Thank God I’ve been blessed. But I would love to go on a date with a guy and he pays for it or we go on a trip together and - if I have to pay half then I need to go on that trip with my girlfriend, not a dude. I’m just saying."

This is a delicate topic for me because whether you like it or not it's a big deal and I personally would have to agree with chilli to some point. I would pay half of my bill if need be but if it becomes a regular thing I might have problems...now I'm just saying. Seriously though what do you think of her response?

FASHION FACE OFF: WHO ROCKED IT BETTER!

Two fashion diva's Kim Kardashian and Jada Pinkett-smith go head to head on this one. Who do you think wore it better? Personally my vote goes to Kim K,for one thing the dress looks too big for Mrs. Smith *shrugs* my opinion anyway. Drop a line with your thoughts here.

10 DATING RULES MEN WISH YOU WOULD BREAK

1) Dating Rule to Break: Never Being the First to Initiate Contact :While drunk texting and spamming are anything but sexy, most men appreciate a random text now and then. In fact, when done right, it can make them more interested in you, Always waiting for the guy to initiate contact is annoying to most men.

2) Dating Rule to Break: Waiting to Have Sex Until the Third Date:When it comes to sex on the first date, some guys say to hold back, but many guys believe it should be decided on a case-by-case basis.

3) Dating Rule to Break: Not Accepting a Last-Minute Offer: Back in the day, “the rules” warned that accepting a late invitation was a sign of desperation. Not true, they wish women understood that asking for a date a day or even a few hours before is not [usually] about being disrespectful, but more about having a last-minute idea to spend time with someone you like.


4) Dating Rule to Break: Expecting a Guy to Pay: While most men are happy to pay on the first date, many are wary of dating a woman who never pulls out her purse. Men think always expecting the guy to pay is rude, If he buys dinner, offer to get drinks or ask him out to the movies and treat him. It will show him that you’re not looking for him to finance your good time—something a lot of guys worry about.


5) Dating Rule to Break: Leaving Your Relationship Up to the Universe: Checking out your daily horoscope can be a fun way to break up the day, but using it as a dating tool can seriously limit your options. So just in case your daily horoscope doesn't agree with your significant others sign bringing it up would cause more than just a little trouble.


6) Dating Rule to Break: Thinking the More Time You Spend Together the Closer You Are: It’s natural to want to spend time with someone you like, but pushing the fast-forward button on a new relationship can send great guys running in the opposite direction.

7) Dating Rule to Break: Expecting Dates to Be Elaborate: Guys won't break their banks or eat/take you out and spend on you above their pay grade. So it will make sense if there isn't pressure to impress when taking a lady out on a date

8) Dating Rule to Break: Dating Only Your Type: A lot of women tend to have height, eye and hair requirements, which keeps them out of relationships with great guys. It’s fine to have a ‘type,’ but I think women should be more open.

9) Dating Rule to Break: Assuming You’re Monogamous: If we’ve been on only five or so dates, we’re dating, and unless a guy makes it clear that you’re exclusive, you should assume that he’s dating other people and you should too.

10) Dating Rule to Break: Running Everything By Your Girlfriends: A lot of women think they need to share every last detail with their friends as a way to gauge the guy and where the relationship is going, but this often leads to miscommunication....culled from glamour.com

Remember girls these are relationship rules they wish we could break not necessarily that you have to conform. Remember there is no particular blueprint to a working relationship,make your relationship work for you.

BEHOLD A 10.000 POUNDS VIBRATOR

I came across this vibrator and I was like whoa when I also found out how much it costs!! 10,000 pounds!! I mean really what could a vibrator that cost that much do for pete's sake! well this is some of it's features:It's a  24 karat gold, £10,000 Lelo Inez vibrator.(it's name) plus it gives two hours of charge for four, straight, unadulterated hours of bliss. Hell, we're talking not one, not two, but five stimulation modes, starting at 'soft flutter' and vrooming all the way through to 'intense pulsation'.

My opinion THAT 'S SICK, lol but this is just an eyeopener that people will go to any lengths for self satisfaction...it's kind of sad but believe me I didn't make this up. Thoughts anyone?

DAVID VILLA IS A SEXPERT!

The Barcelona striker making bold statement with his clothes there. So for you people that really need that sex advice? contact the brother above,you'll be a satisfied customer i promise *wink*

Meanwhile in a related story, fottie stars are seriously out there to make a fashion statement. Take controversial Manchester city striker Mario Barlotelli  for example,liked his mo hawk so much he had it included in his hoodie. Don't know about you but this picture illicit the words W.T.F!!

Why Good Sex Necessarily Doesn’t Spell Love

This article i'm sharing with you today is kind of funny to me because like a few minutes ago I was having a conversation with my collegue who was complaing about short lived marriages,I said alot of people assume because you have great sex together it translates that your lives together would be perfect. That doen't happen so I decided to blog about it,here's what i discovered:

 

 You met a guy you’re mad about, and decided to bite the bullet and have sex.The sex was mind-blowing, you both had a fabulous time, and now you’re even crazier about him than before!
In your mind you’ve just reached a milestone in your relationship and you can’t wait to see where it’s going next. Your emotions are all tangled up over him, and you feel like you’re now closer than ever.

A bit of time passes, and you begin to feel like feelings aren’t being reciprocated in quite the manner you expected, considering you’ve now been intimate together. Stop right there, because that’s where lies an issue. This may sting a bit but you need to know and understand this.

Men and women are two different animals that tend to view sex in entirely different ways. The hard truth is that just because your feelings deepen with sex it doesn’t mean his do. In fact men have the ability to completely separate sex from emotion, and women all over the world are left feeling a little confused after getting naked, wondering why he doesn’t seem to feel as emotionally connected as they now do. For Men of course are perfectly capable of sharing casual sex with a woman and being 100% OK that casual is all that it is. They don’t have to love someone to have sex with them. In fact some men don’t even have to like a woman to have sex with her.

Sex can be seen by men as strictly a recreational act, a physical way to have fun and enjoy the time he’s spending with a woman. Love simply isn’t a requirement for that to happen, even if the sex itself is crazy good. Women can often mistakenly assume that sex means an emotional bond is already there, or even worse that sex will create that bond.

When all is said and done though, unless that bond was already established because you both invested the time in each other to nurture it… one sexual encounter doesn’t make that bond magically appear.
If that emotional connection is missing, then to a guy good sex is just that and he is always more than happy to engage in it when it is offered. He may even have a great time and want to do it again… but it doesn’t mean he wll be mentally picking out rings for the two of you and convincing himself you’re “the one”. Ultimately one of the most important questions you need to ask yourself before ever having sex with a man is this- Can you handle it if things just don’t work out like you hope?Sometimes good sex is just good sex.

 

With all said and done ladies think with your head.



Togo women call sex strike

   

Contrary to what the picture above says, lol, it was just so funny i had to put it up,but here's some serious developments going on in our neighbor country Togo.

Women in Togo have been urged to abstain from sex for a week from Monday to push their demand for reform. The ban has been called by opposition coalition Let's Save Togo, made up of nine civil society groups and seven opposition parties and movements. Opposition leader Isabelle Ameganvi said that sex could be a "weapon of the battle" to achieve political change. The coalition wants President Faure Gnassingbe, whose family has held power for decades, to stand down.  She said she had been inspired by a similar strike by Liberian women in 2003, who used a sex strike to campaign for peace. "If men refuse to hear our cries we will hold another demonstration that will be more powerful than a sex strike," she added...culled from BBC.

Well  a sex strike for a week? will it work? because the only message being passed across here is that these guys get "it" on a regular so they might be compelled to listen if the don't have sex for a week. I just hope it works,thoughts on this move anyone?