BARLOTELLI'S BABY BUMP

Raffaella Fico is the model who claimed 21 year old Man City footballer, Mario Barlotelli, is the father of her unborn baby. The 24-year-old walked the runway for Pin Up Stars on Saturday Sept 22nd wearing skimpy bikinis and sky-high heels. Mario Barlotelli has said he will accept responsibility for the pregnancy only after a paternity test. *ahem* I guess it pays to have mad money because on a regular day there's no way someone that looks like Barlotelli could get close, talk more of shagging a girl like this!

HOW TO FIND OUT IF A GIRL LIKES YOU

Hey fellas you'll have to thank me for this painstaking research i conducted. This would be regarded as selling out in some cultures lol, alright pay full attention.:I f you’ve ever felt like a girl likes you, just use these tips to bring things out in the open. And once you do know the answer, you can ask her out if you choose to or just enjoy the attention!

1) You catch her staring at you often. Does she steal glances at you now and then? And every time you look at her, does she blush and look away? If a girl can’t stop staring at you, especially when you’re busy or occupied with something else, it’s a good sign to show that she has something romantic in mind when it comes to your thoughts.

2) You bump into her often. And somehow, she doesn’t seem surprised to see you. If you don’t know this girl or haven’t been introduced to her, and you still see her out of the blue in places where you like hanging out, she may want to catch your eye.

3) Her friends seem excited. She seems nervous. One of the easiest ways to find out if a girl likes you is by watching her behavior when she’s with her friends. Do you see her friends nudging her while she blushes and discreetly looks at you now and then? Well, if her friends stare hard at you and laugh, and if she coyly catches your eye, there’s definitely a crush in the air.

4) She thinks you’re a great guy. When you have a conversation with this girl, does she constantly remind you about how sweet a guy you are? Being labeled a sweet guy isn’t always a compliment. But if she ever does say any girl would be lucky to have you, then that surely is a compliment!

5) She looks for excuses to touch you. Some girls are just touchy feely all the time. But almost all the girls aren’t. Does a girl look for excuses to touch you or hold your hand? If you notice this behavior of hers only around you and not any other guy, she probably does have feelings for you.

6) She compliments you a lot. Does this girl treat you preferentially? Does she favor you or take your side all the time? There’s a good chance that a girl likes you if she favors you and compliments you for the smallest of reasons, all the time.

7) She talks about your exes and girlfriend. When a girl likes a guy, she’d want to know everything about his relationship status and his past relationships. It’s an easy way to get to know more about the kind of girls you like and are attracted to, and also the relationship issues that matter to you.

8) She talks about your plans. If a girl likes you, she’d want to be a part of your life beyond work or college hours. Friends do casually ask each other what they’re up to over the weekend, but if a girl wants to date you, she’d try to look for similar activities often, so she can join you.

9) She gives you all her attention. We’re all busy in our own lives. But if a girl likes you a lot, she’ll push everything else aside so she can spend more time with you. Does she spend time talking to you for a long while even if she’s busy, be it in hallways or over phone?

10) She asks you out. If a girl likes you but is too shy to ask you out on a date , she may try to look for subtler ways to date you or ask you out. Does she ask you about your weekend plans or if you’d be interested in a show or a game for which she has tickets? If she always picks you as the first option to ask out, there’s definitely more than just friendship on her mind.

11) She flaunts her single status. Does this friend of yours make it very clear to you that she’s single and ready to date someone? If she constantly reminds you that she’s looking for a good guy to date, or asks you to go clubbing with her because she’s got no date, she may indeed like you.

12) She gets jealous when you ignore her. Does this girl get annoyed when you talk a lot to some other girl? Does she pass a snide remark or pull your leg saying you’re attracted to the other girl just because you had a friendly conversation with that girl? She may be jealous on the inside.

And when you ignore this girl completely and have a touchy flirty conversation with another attractive girl, does she avoid you completely or get rude all of a sudden? Sometimes, romantic jealousy is the best sign of romance.

Now individually, these signs on how to tell if a girl likes you may not give you the answer. But watch out for these 12 signs and see if she triggers more than a few of them when she’s with you. If she does, there’s a good chance that she likes you. *WINKS*

7 Signs You're Ready to Get Married

If your wondering "how will I know" kind of like the song Whitney Houston sang, well let me break it down for you via some help from COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINE. The article stared like this:  When Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds secretly tied the knot, everyone was pleasantly surprised. But still, Blake is only 25—the earliest age that experts say is good for making a marriage last. Age aside, research was conducted by experts for signs that let you know you're ready to get married. Be sure you check these off before you walk down the aisle.

1) You've Dated Around
This is in no way encouraging you to date alot of men till you settle for Mr. right. All that is being said is just in case you fall under this category you have an advantage.Having dated around under your belt does help you figure out what qualities are important to you and what makes a relationship work—so you truly appreciate your future hubs when you find him.

2) You Share Similar Goals
Settle down with a man you're more or less on the same page with: you both want to live in the city, you both want (or don't want) kids, etc.

3) You Don't Want to Change Him
Look, you don't have to adore everything about your guy.You can't change a man (but you can tweak him), and trying to will make you frustrated...not to mention bitchier.

4) Your Connection Is Tight Out of Bed, Too
When you first started seeing each other, staying between the sheets all weekend was pretty legit. But for your bond to be strong enough for the long haul, you need more than a physical connection—meaning you need to know that you can have just as much fun together with your clothes on as you do when they're off.

5) You're Not Living Out a Bridal Fantasy
Sure, it seems like every time you sign onto Facebook, another pal has posted pics of herself in a stunning white gown. But remember: Getting hitched isn't about the ceremony—it's about what happens after your big day. You'd better be thinking about your future life with him, not just your future bridal party photos (and how pretty they'll look in that fab silver frame).

6) You Both Try to Resolve Fights
Sweeping conflicts under the rug only sets you up for a bigger blow-outs down the road, because the issues will likely resurface if left unresolved. If you can't talk things out rationally, you're not ready.

7) Your Friends and Family Dig Him
Of course, it's your life, so you have the final say. Thing is, choosing a partner is a big deal, and your inner circle's input does mean something. It's fine if a few family members or friends aren't huge fans of you two as a couple; you can't please 'em all. But if everyone seems to think you're a poor match, ask them why. They might be onto something.

So what do you all think?...It's making alot of sense.

RUGGEDMAN'S ADVICE ON MARRIAGE

It seems celebrities in Nigeria feel the need to drop some serious relationship advice. This is coming off the  recent tweets from popular radio and television presenter Ik Osakioduwa. Not to be left behind Ruggedman recently dropped his own two cents on the issue of marriage.

What do you think about his tips?

PICTURE STORY

Moving on to a very unrelated matter, i was bored today and was surfing the web and came upon this picture...I'm at loss for words here people,this is an autograph signing session gone crazy! thoughts?

5 SIMPLE BUT EFFECTIVE WAYS TO SAY "SORRY"...

You know that feeling...you're hurt, your partner hurts too, there's tension; so strong, you could almost slice it with a knife.You just want to make all that tension go away and make everything perfect again or you may not even understand why your partner is angry, yet you can see the visible anger on his on her face and countenance.

Whatever the situation is, be sure to be sincere.It could be really difficult to say those words, 'I'm sorry' and sometimes, even when you say them, they just sound lame and insincere.

These are 5 very simple but very effective ways of taking that step and dissolving the tension


1. Make Your Apology Bigger than the Crime. Don’t attempt to diminish your mistake by offering a lame apology or excuse. You’ll only make matters worse. Instead of Saying “It’s not a big deal,” “I didn’t mean it,” or “You’re overreacting” … Try: “I made a big mistake,” “I never should have done that,” or “I should have known better.”

2. Admit Your Real Wrong. The superficial part of a mistake (missing dinner, a careless comment) is often a symptom of a larger offense. A good apology reveals that underlying issue by using the word “because.” Instead of: “I’m sorry I forgot about our dinner plans” … Try: “I’m sorry I forgot our plans because it was disrespectful of me to cancel at the last minute.”


3. Never Say “But”. This one word can sabotage your apology. It’s a disguised effort to deflect blame (“I’m sorry about forgetting dinner, but you should have reminded me”). O_O Never do this. It drives me nuts. I am sure other people think so as well.

4. Use Your Words, Not Your Wallet. Nothing can replace an honest, heartfelt apology. Giving your partner flowers or another gift in lieu of an apology can come off as a bribe. The gift says you’re sorry but doesn’t show that you understand what you did wrong. If you want to give a gift, do it later — it’ll be much more appreciated when it’s given without strings attached.

5 Make your expressions match your words: With all said and done I think by far this is the most important tip of them all. When your apologizing you need to look like you are actually sorry or else everything your doing will be blown up in the air,avoid being smug or proud because you know your getting the sympathy you want from your partner. If your going to act out an apology, you better look the part *wink*

Do you think these tips will actually work?...HOLLER

HOW TO BAG YOURSELF A MAN-FROM A MAN'S POINT OF VIEW.

The happily married popular TV and radio personality has tips for all single women...on how you can get a man...:-) See it below and tell us if you agree...

10. Don't pressure him to marry u with questions like "Where's this leading?" Instead leave him if he's taking too long.#IksTipsToGettingAMan

9. No matter what, never be rude or abusive to him in front of his friends. (Not even in jest) #IksTipsToGettingAMan

8. Have standards. Or you'll find yourself in and out relationships too often and that'll earn you a bad name. #IksTipsToGettingAMan

7. Learn to cook. Most guys like a girl that CAN cook. Yeah not all guys but MOST. So do yourself a favour and learn #IksTipsToGettingAMan

6. Don't give it ALL up. Leave some for marriage. Perfect the art of giving previews. Nobody pays for free stuff. #IksTipsToGettingAMan

5. Make an effort. Try to look nice. Work out. Guys like babes. Get that Don King hair done, stop forming"Oh Naturale" #IksTipsToGettingAMan

4.Drop guys that take all ur time without really chasing u. They block other guys. No IWC= Intimacy Without Commitment#IksTipsToGettingAMan

3. Be careful not to be TOO INDEPENDENT. Learn to gain from your man's presence in your life. Guys need to be needed. #IksTipsToGettingAMan

2.Make friends with married women. They know what guys want more than your single friends (that's why they're married) #IksTipsToGettingAMan

1. Learn to do solo trips. It's just easier for most guys to step to a girl on her own, than one in a pack of girls #IksTipsToGettingAMan










I especially like tip number six,believe it or not i re tweeted it when i saw it. By the way these tips were given out freely on twitter, your thoughts?