WHY WOMEN GO FOR "TAKEN" MEN

  

OMG it's amazing how this year is running out so quickly, sadly I'm probably one of the very few Nigerians reluctant to let go of 2013. Anyway as we count down to the new year, with plenty hopes and expectations here's hopefully not my last offering for this year :). You know how disgusted and angry some women get when they learn or see a side chick? So I was wondering why side chicks well like doing what they do. Here's my discovery below....

•  Because You’re Beyond Her Reach 

We women always want what is not meant for us-painful but true- Advise us against something, and we do it anyway. Have you ever seen a chick drooling over diamonds displayed outside showrooms – those that she may never be able to afford? The more out of reach you are, the more she is going to fawn over you.

• Because She Thinks You Are Safe

You’re harmless. We can flirt all we want without worrying about the consequences. We girls knows you’re taken and that is why we can talk to you freely about our feelings and lure you into the trap because even we knows that there is no way this can work out. Even if it does, it is only going to boost our ego.

•  Because She Always Hears Good Things About You 

Thanks to your girlfriend, you’re being spoken of fondly in front of every other girl. Girlfriends love to advertise their men, always. Your girl would make it a point to mention (read boast about) the University you graduated from, how you proposed to her in the most romantic way and how you once fixed the tyre in front of her. Of course, your performance in bedroom tops the list. You’re made into this hunk of a man every woman wants.

•  Because You’re Popular 

This is another benefit of being taken. Date a hot girl and you get some more hot women batting eyelids at you. Every girl compares her life to that of every other girl. They want to have what the other girl has. Since the day you entered in a relationship, you’re all that your girlfriend’s best friends are thinking about. From a single, unknown guy you've suddenly become ‘the man’ every girl desires.

•  Because It Boosts Their Ego 

Of course, we women like to make a committed man go head over heels with our charm. It tells us that we're still much more desirable than the woman next to you. If you lose your loyalty to your girl for this woman, it is obviously going to boost her ego! It’s a safe game. If you fall into the trap, she wins. If you don’t, then she can always blame it on your relationship status.

•  Because They Like Challenge

We women know how easy it is to make men fall for us. But taken men are a challenge. They might be content with their girlfriends or they might be the loyal ones who never cheat. But the risk quotient is what entices a chick into the act. She wants to know if you’re really happy in the relationship, and if you’re not, she knows her game well.

•  Because She Wants To Secretly Compete With Your Girlfriend 

Girls compete, a lot! The day you proposed to your girlfriend was probably the day she pledged to strike back with a bigger bang. She wants to score a point by wavering you off the ‘committed’ track. Girls like to assume that they’re much better than your girlfriend. It’s a competition she wants to win, come what may.

These facts may seem as if I'm like rebelling on my kind lol but it all makes perfect sense to me, if you disagree however feel free to drop your opinion on the comment bar or better still hit me up on twitter. Remember you gotta follow first @keeksokafor 

TRUTHFUL SIGNS HE'S NOT INTO YOU

Here's something cool I want to share with you all, this post is done on special request lol. So I blog on demand, my girl is having man trouble and believes it's because the guy isn't feeling her. This post is to shed some light on that, if your hanging on to a brother and things aren't going as expected check out these signs before you check out of the relationship! This is some real talk!

Do you really know when you should take the hint? Do you really get the feeling that, maybe, your crush will eventually be into you? Girls and guys, you've got to sometimes just realize that there are a lot of signs he's not into you that can help you avoid heartbreak and avoid getting completely attached! So, get ready to figure out if he is into you or not?

1. HE ISN'T READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP

If he/she is saying their not ready for a serious relationship, maybe you should actually take what he is saying to heart, ladies and gents. After all, how many times have you said that exact line when you weren't into your boy of choice? Really, think about this as one of the top signs he's not into you. Now, if he tells you that he isn't ready for a relationship right now, but wants to get to know you better, that is a different conversation!

2. YOU CAN'T GET NEAR HIS PHONE

When you are around your crush, how does he act around you? Does he let you anywhere near his phone? What is he scared of if you do happen to take his phone? This is another sign that your crush might not be with you. After all, what guy doesn't allow you to see any portion of his phone at all?

3. HE DOESN'T REALLY FLIRT WITH YOU

You can usually tell when a guy is flirting with you, but if you aren't getting anything at all from your crush, why are you still lingering? Typically, flirting is something that people do when they are interested – so if your crush isn't doing that, why do you need to stress over him? It isn't worth it!

4. HE STILL HASN'T ASKED YOU OUT

Ah, the dreaded waiting game. Waiting for him to come and ask you out can be horrible and if it still hasn't happened, maybe it won't. Girls and guys, you've got to face it, sometimes, it just isn't going to happen. You've got to really learn that if he still hasn't asked you out after months, you shouldn't put all of your stock into him!

5. NO ADVANCE PLANS

While advanced plans are something to look forward to, does your crush ever just call you up and try to make plans for the next week? Is everything always so last minute? That could be a sign that maybe, he's just not into you and he's using you until something better comes along. Have you ever thought about that before?

6. FORGETS IMPORTANT STUFF

Ah, finally, the last sign that you've got to watch out for whenever you think your crush might not be into you is his memory. Important details about you are things that your crush should remember if he's really into you. If you are constantly reminding your crush about details about you, that's a sign that he is just not into you!
So girls and guys, these are just a few signs that your crush might not be into you.

Take it or leave it, these are very real facts you should consider. Thank me later, hell thank me now on twitter @keeksokafor or drop a comment below.

7 STEPS TO ROCKING YOUR PANTIES RIGHT

Believe it or not there are certain ways to wear your panties, so ladies please take note.
Every woman should have several pairs of panties for different occasions. There are so many underwear choices for women these days that it is easy to get confused about what you should wear and when, though. Thankfully, there are some tried and true underwear selecting tips that will help any woman make the right choice *winks*. It just all depends on your body type, modesty level and how the underwear will work with what you are wearing.

• Step 1 

Steer clear of see-through mishaps. If you are wearing sheer ( transparent) clothing, it is best to go with a pair of panties that is in a skin tone colour. Lighter women will want to choose a buff or nude colour, while darker women may need a tan or brown undergarment.

• Step 2 

Make sure that your underwear isn't visible in your outfit. Avoid the peek-a-boo look by choosing a low cut briefs to wear with low ride jeans.

• Step 3 

Choose the perfect fit. If the underwear rides up, curls up around the waist or pinches, then you will need to choose a larger size. If the underwear sags around the crotch or falls down, you will need to go down in size.

• Step 4 

Complement your assets. Women who love their booty should choose a fanny flaunting thong or comfy, yet sexy, boy shorts. Show off a toned belly with bikini briefs.

• Step 5

Hide your flaws. If you need to suck it in or banish a roll, select a control top or slimming pair of panties. These are usually high-waisted panties that push excess fat back so that the stomach looks flatter. These can usually be purchased in most department stores.

• Step 6 

Add assets. There are now panties that can give you a little extra junk-in-the-trunk- if you know what I mean- without surgery. These panties have padding or silicone in the butt area to give you a little more curve.

• Step 7 

Lift and separate. There are also "body shaping" panties that are specifically designed to lift the butt and to help users avoid "monobutt." These panties are often made from stretchy, form fitting material. The cheek area is often cut out to create the boost and separation. These panties can be purchased from speciality undergarment shops

I bet you didn't know all this but i'm glad I could help out. it's crazy but true there are mechanisms to wearing underwear lol. Compliments of the season remember if you've got a question for me holler on twitter @keeksokafor or a question drop a comment below! 

READ THE SIGNS-THE FLIRTING SIGNS

It's been a long hiatus and I must say there isn't a good enough excuse for being away for so long. I want to use this opportunity to wish you, you and you a happy holiday's plus remember 2013 isn't over yet so make the rest of this year count if you know what I mean :) .This post is for all the people that share my current relationship status lol-single and ready to mingle- winks. Like I said earlier, the year aint over yet so a fish could be out there to be gotten. Of course to be able to identify this "fish" is a bit tricky that's why it's important to be able to read the signs before you act, here they are:

Men exhibit several common flirting signals. Is he making a point to look into your eyes or stare at you a little longer than necessary? If so, then he is probably flirting and would like to talk to you. Once you start a conversation, he will probably make jokes and compliment your looks or how you are dressed. He may also touch your hand or arm slightly while talking to you.

Women who are flirting exhibit similar behaviours. She might point her shoulders towards you and lean in. When she talks to you, she will make long, deep eye contact and laugh at your jokes. She will often say anything just to keep the conversation going. She might even twirl her fingers around her hair while she is looking at you.

• Identification

If you are ready to show you are interested and flirt a little bit, you should start by approaching the other person and standing very close to them while you say hello. Look them in the eye and begin a casual conversation. Saying something humorous is a great way to flirt. If you find that you have the same sense of humour, you're headed in the right direction. Ask the other person about themselves and really listen to what they have to say. Then, later in conversation, bring up something that they have said about themselves to show that you have been listening.

• Effects

Confidence is a big turn on for both males and females. If you wish to flirt, be sure to exude that confidence. It is sexy and alluring. Knowing you are someone who is worth loving and being desired shows on your face when you begin to flirt with someone of the opposite sex.

• Considerations

Body language plays a large part when it comes to flirting. If someone is looking at you with raised eyebrows and an intense stare, they are probably interested. Open posture is also important. If someone is standing with their body open to you and not with crossed arms and a tense face, this shows that they are open to get to know you. Women often flick their hair when they are flirting. They also tend to lick their lips and glance down and to the side after they have been caught looking at you.

With all said and done I'll leave you to practice these tips and bag the girl/guy of your dream!!! Remember to follow me on twitter on @keeksokafor or for any question or comments concerning this post drop a comment below.