Tuesday, 8 October 2013

SOME REASONS MEN CHEAT

 
Like I had initially stated I've been bolted awake so i'm totally gingered and rearing to go lool. Okay that sounded a bit cliche but here are some reasons men cheat. I scoured around the internet to find these helpful reason so we women can know why and come to terms and have some kind of closure. So ladies thank me later and fellas feel free to drop a comment and correct me if i'm wrong.

1. Fights at Home
When a man fights regularly with his wife and these quarrels are left unsolved, the man becomes unhappy and disturbed. He can either fight back or simply flee. The latter scenario may be the reason why men cheat on their wives. Because when they look for an affair, they search for someone that brings them calmness and understanding, therefore a parallel life and support.(side comment) ...kinda makes it sound like men are cowards huh? *shrugs* sounds that way to me too.

2. Boredom
This is another reason why guys cheat on their girlfriends and wives. Some men may find couple routine a little dull and instead of changing their situation, they find another relationship that will offer them the spark their current relationship lacks. They want to experiment something new and fresh and they are willing to take the risk.(side comment) ...did I hear some girl shout inconsiderate!? amen sister!

3. Sexual Experimentation
Sex represents an important aspect of a relationship. Some men are easily bored so they are willing to experiment more sexually. They like to have a lot of sexual partners and if the occasion arrives, they will not back off. Perhaps this makes them feel powerful and experts at bed talk!(side comment)...W.T.F I mean literally w.t.f?

4. Family History
Some men may have witnessed cheating in their parent’s marriage and this might have transmitted them a message that it is okay to cheat. Our parents are in fact our first teachers because we learn from them each and every day, so seeing one of your parents cheat makes you think that this is the normal thing to do, when in fact it may bring a lot of suffering. (side comment)...smh now there's a justification for every evil thing on planet earth!

5. Temptation Is Too Big
Some men like to live in chaos and they want to enjoy every temptation that might come along. The adrenaline rush that they get from cheating with another women is definitely a thrill and they love it, therefore they yield to temptation every time it comes along. (side comment)...okay relate-able but still remember the good book says flee from temptation. 

6. Insecurity
There are some men that don’t feel good about themselves and they need the validation of women (others than their wives or girlfriends) to still feel desirable to the opposite sex.(side comment)...and those men shall be called women!

7. Compulsory Cheating
This is in fact a real medical condition that should be treated. A compulsive cheater needs medical help and our recommendation would be to leave the relationship before it’s too late.(side comment)...so that's what its called in cheating language. It's some one like a kleptomaniac.  

Interesting stuff really, I have to apologize that I couldn't help but make those side comments. Meanwhile, like I said initially fellas if you have something to dispute on this holler on the comments bar or talk to me directly follow me on twitter its @keeksokafor -yeah cheap ass publicity I know-.

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