RELATIONSHIP THERAPY

 

Alright here we go: Happy New Month KIK-EETE's, this is my first brand new offering for the month of September. Enjoy. We all know that at some point in our various relationships we'll hit hard times so here's something neat I came across to help us all deal it's a kind of do-it-yourself thing. Plus dealing in this case is making it work and you know using these tips to formulate a blue print that works for your relationship, like I say all the time thank me later :)

While most relationships have their share of ups and downs, very few couples are willing or able to invest the time and/or money that traditional relationship therapy would cost. This doesn't mean that they're more or less committed to the success of their relationship than other couples - only that they have different limits as to what they find as an acceptable intrusion into their private lives (particularly when it comes to a third party such as a therapist).  You can do this as one partner or as a couple, although it's much more effective when both people participate. We've become a society of do-it-yourselfers, so it only makes sense that we're bringing this idea into the more personal aspects of our lives rather than the simple home improvement projects.

Positive thinking is a great place to start. Whenever the roads of romance become a little too rocky for comfortable travel, it's time to take a step back and remind each other why you fell in love in the first place. Make a list. Remind each other of the wonderful person you are when not bothered with the worries of the world, children, finances, and the world outside the circle of your arms.There are many different styles of self-therapy that you can use.  A highly recommended style of relationship therapy is known as the Imago, which is Latin for 'match' style. The important thing is that you take as many steps as possible together.

Role-playing is another great way to obtain valuable insight as to how you perceive your partner as well as how he or she sees you. You may learn a lot about how the English language is inadequate at expressing your precise messages. You may intend to say one thing and your partner may hear something else entirely. It's important to learn how to communicate with one another positively and accurately. Working together through self-therapy and role-playing can help you achieve that.
Finally don't forget to do the needful, first follow me on twitter lol @keeksokafor and second drop a comment on anything you don't get , i'll treat it. Have a blessed month ahead.