SECRET REVEALED: WHAT A MAN WANTS

So this post is trying to shine the light into the man's mind, you know how they say men are from mars and women from Venus and all that jazz? *ahem* I have heard from severally men how uncomplicated they claim to be and how it's we women that have all the drama, being as that has been said, I think I'll have to agree there. Before ladies start raising eyebrows and disputing the fact let me draw your attention to this post; you'll learn a thing or two, now take extra time to read everything because a message is passed even in its simplicity.

You see, men are very visual and simple creatures, attraction and infatuation happens very quickly, they don’t need to know a lot about you in order to become attracted. Basically, it’s all down to your first impression. It’s also true that in time, this changes and an appreciation for you(female) will be at a much deeper level but for starters here are the things that catch a man's eye:

1. A cheerful woman
Nothing turns a man off more than a depressed and mean attitude. If you want to get that extra attention make sure you look cheerful because a flirty giggle and a cheerful attitude can quickly melt any man’s heart.
Understood that it’s not always easy to have such an attitude but if you can think about the happier side of life, all the time, this will happen naturally. Just take a minute to think about it, would you date a guy that hates his life and is genuinely miserable? Probably not, so think about this next time you go out.

2. A well dressed, good looking woman
Yes, men are attracted by looks, you know it, it’s the truth. But do not worry because this doesn't mean you have to undergo plastic surgery. Dressing well and looking good are things that you can immediately change. I’m not going to give any lessons on fashion as I’m probably not the right person to do so however, caring about what you put on and the way you apply some make-up can be detrimental when it comes to attracting men. Just focus on dressing well and feeling good about yourself. If you feel good about how you look then the people around you will feel the same way. You don’t have to wear flashy color clothes or anything like that, just be confident, have well fitted clothes and use a little bit of perfume and you’ll be attracting some males in no time.

3. A flirty woman
There’s nothing like a woman that can flirt back. Men know that in order to attract a woman they'd have to flirt. Sadly, often times ladies don’t flirt back but…when they do…it’s absolutely amazing. What do you need to do? Simple things like curling your lips or biting them slightly, raising your eyebrows when you make a smart remark, giggling at jokes, being genuinely interested in what he says – these sort of things. If you can’t yet master this subtle art, try looking at yourself in the mirror and exercise there. It may seem awkward at first but it will help you get the hand of things fairly quickly.

4. Show us some skin
Now this isn't a guide on how to be slutty however, that little bit of extra skin turns guys heads in an instant. Too much skin is a cry for attention and men know it but if you play it subtle – It will work a lot better.
A shirt or a tee that ends just right around where your jeans start or a perfectly fitting top with a wider neck that shows a bit but yet needs a bit of craning to get a peep is just the perfect combination. Men love those nearly-there peeks and it drives them crazy.

5. A seductive voice
Again, this isn't about changing your voice but using it correctly. There are little things in life that make the hair on a man’s back raise with excitement and a woman’s voice is one of them. Mastering the art of the seductive voice takes time so don’t focus on it too much. Men are turned off by high pitched glass shattering squeals that most women use when they’re surprised or ecstatic with joy. A low and soft voice is obviously more attractive. Lucky for you, it’s actually not that hard to speak in a low, softer tone without seeming like you’re trying too hard. Exercise your new found talent on the phone but don’t blame me if the guy on the other line starts to get flirty.

6. A Damsel In Distress
Maybe the term damsel in distress is too much for this but you get the idea, a woman in need. This may actually be a man’s dream, to help out a woman in need…as it gives them the perfect opportunity to be A MAN in front of you. Men love to feel wanted and then appreciated by women. You might think that men hate doing errands and stuff like that but they hate it only when they're in a long term relationship. At the beginning, men are at your disposal so use them in any way you want. So, if you know a single guy, go up to him with a smile on your face and ask him to help you with something, chances are he’ll jump to your help immediately.Men absolutely love women that ask for help, it just makes them feel manlier and it gives them the opportunity to have a conversation with you. And when you thank them with a flirty smile, there’s a good chance the guys would do anything to get your number.

7. A woman who acknowledges a man’s stare
This is the first step in seduction and probably the most important. You need to have the ability to acknowledge their stares. Sure, some guys have a lot of guts and approach you instantly but most guys don’t have this type of attitude and you need to give them at least the slightest reason to react. Many guys will try to get your attention by giving a manly stare. React to this by looking back at them. You don’t even have to smile (sure if you do, you give them even more reasons to approach you) but even just acknowledging their look is enough. You don’t need to do this with every guy that looks at you, but if he seems decent enough, do it. This simple acknowledgement of a stare is the most important thing you can do if you want to get a guy to notice you and come in for the approach. In conclusion, now that you have this knowledge make sure you use it wisely. There are a lot of women out there that just scream for attention, don’t be that woman because men, hate her. Attract guys but show them that you’re different when you are approached, this is how long term relationships are built.

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