TOASTING SKILLS FOR WOMEN

Who says you have to wait, batting your eyelashes and hoping that handsome guy will introduce himself? Take life by the horns and pick that man up! but make sure he's single first. Now the worst place to pick up anyone guys/girls alike is at a bar. Because when you pick up someone at a bar you're only talking to the alcohol and not the real person. If you really have given up on meeting people the old fashion way you might want to refer to the electronic way and I'm not talking about Facebook, here are those special tips on how
to pick up that man *winks*

1) Pick a good spot.: Choose a place you would much rather want to meet a man. Places like the cinema's, super market, sports bar...the list is endless.

2) Flirt from a distance:. Make eye contact, smile, and look approachable. Make sure that your body language is open and that you look approachable. "More than 50 percent of all communication is done via body language and gestures," explains body-language expert Janine Driver says. A good way to open your body language is to lean on something. Make sure that your feet are pointed at who you are trying to approach. Don't cross your arms or your legs. This closes you off and makes you look unapproachable.

3) Start a conversation. You may skip it if you are terrified by the thought of starting a conversation with a stranger (a good-looking guy, no less). But if you skip this step, you are depriving yourself of a valuable screening tool. What if this guy is a total weirdo? Or just too dull, too quiet, too loud, too macho, too meek, or just not your type? Besides, you're going to have to talk to him at some point, anyway. It's better to find out now that he has horrific breath, or that he can't stop talking about his mother or ex-girlfriend, rather than make the discovery on your first date, when your escape route will be a little narrower

4) Close the deal. Alright:. Now it's time to get his phone number! If you had been successful is making a conversation with him, you can say something like, "You're fascinating! I like talking to you. Can I call you sometime?" You could even go a step forward and ask him out on a date instead.

5) If you can't get a conversation going (like, if you are too nervous), then you must take the direct route. You are going to cut through the steps of saying hi, doing introductions, and talking about the weather, before asking him for his phone number. You are just going to ask him for him phone number. This might call for a pickup line. We women have been subject to all kinds of lame and even rude pick up lines, and they can be upsetting. So, avoid saying anything questionable. Otherwise, you'll look like a fool and he'll refuse (or just brush you off). However, don't be put off if you can't think of something clever or funny. Even a lame pick up line can be endearing if you LOOK attractive and SMILE. You can just say, "I like your shirt. Can I have your number?"Smiling, being friendly and staying on top of personal health and hygiene is all you need to always be prepared to pick up men.

6) There is one last way. Right before you leave, give him your contact info, and walk away. The "hit and run" approach is highly recommended. It doesn't give him a chance to reject you on the spot, which makes things easier on you, obviously. It also gives him time to digest what just happened, which may not happen to him often. If you skipped the conversation step, or even if you didn't, you may want to give him only a personal e-mail address rather than a phone number, in case he turns out to be the creepy stalker type.

•     If he's been checking you out the whole time, be bold. Go up to him and ask, "So when are you gonna take me out?" or, "Here's my number, in case you want to take me out sometime